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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Grinning Cat on February 11, 2015 at 12:14pm

Carl, I'll second third nth all of that -- hang in there! I'm glad you're in good hands, surrounded by people who care... things will get better!

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 11, 2015 at 11:59am

You will be able to get through this Dark Era and your loving family and friends cheering you on. Your support teams are. 

Chris, the kitty purring sounds restful. 

Comment by Plinius on February 11, 2015 at 10:35am

I'm glad you're in good hands, Carl!

This is a good one for your blood pressure:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFtgB_KQD_s

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 11, 2015 at 10:16am

My echo-cardiogram has been scheduled for this Friday, so hopefully next week a decision can be made about either having heart surgery or a kidney transplant first.  My kidneys have gotten worse and I'm in the position now of having to rely on family for meals.  I just don't have the energy to take care of myself.  Even small tasks like getting dressed leave me out of breath.  

If I end up having heart surgery first, I probably will need to be on dialysis as I recover.  

Thanks to all of you for your concerns.  I'm being well taken care of by my family.     

Comment by Randall Smith on February 11, 2015 at 7:43am

Carl, I admire your patience and positive attitude, frustrating as the waiting is. Hang in there, my friend.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 11, 2015 at 1:20am

Oh dear, the waiting must get annoying, to say the least. Being thorough is a good thing, even as it results in irritation. How are you feeling, besides anxious and frustrated? Neither of those feelings helps. Your snow level continues; hopefully that will end soon.  

OK Carl, get out your relaxation tapes and whatever else you can use to get through this period. I/we think of you and wish you the very best of health. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 11, 2015 at 1:13am

Bill Nye the Science Guy has no patience with climate deniers

Facts are fact and how people in responsible places in government can deny climate change, caused by human activity, and threatening our planet, boggles my imagination.  

Comment by Plinius on February 11, 2015 at 12:00am

Can you manage waiting longer, Carl?

Comment by Patricia on February 10, 2015 at 1:28pm

How are these delays affecting the possible need for dialysis Carl?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 10, 2015 at 11:26am

More delays.  I've been waiting for final word from a cardiologist for clearance concerning upcoming surgery.  Now they want me to have another echo-cardiogram.  I've had three in the last six months.  I'm told they want a more detailed look at the severity of my aortic stenosis.  My consolation is knowing that I will have my kidney transplant operation performed at the leading hospital in the United States for such procedures.  They are being very thorough.   

 

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