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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 21. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2014 at 12:02am

Glad to hear from you, Carl. You have a lot on your plate but you are up to it, I'm sure. We'll be the best support we can be.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 10, 2014 at 11:36pm

Carl, I just wanna give you the biggest, warmest HUG ever!

My computer tech/friend has been on dialysis for 5 years because he doesn't want to go through all that transplant and the aftermath  stuff.....but it's rough on him.  And I worry....not just because he's a good tech....he's a neat person.  And so are you.

There are several fund-raising web sites....most of them charge a percentage of the money raised.  Do a Google search.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 10, 2014 at 10:38pm

Agh! Carl, kidney surgery sounds way too complicated. I wish you luck.

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2014 at 9:20pm

Carl, So glad to read your post and understand the stressors that you face. A lot to absorb, as C.S.A.W.S. noted. 

First of all, a money raiser for you here on A/N, if that is allowed.  I have no idea how to start one. Is anyone familiar with this aspect? I can follow directions and work with anyone who can take the lead. Are there any rules or guidelines for doing such a thing?

Will your sisters be donors?  

Yes, you are strong, both physically and mentally and can take on whatever challenge that confronts you. Your medical team, family team, and A/N team stand with you as you progress through this 

Knowing you are busy, I will be patient in receiving news about your progress. Well, no, that isn't true. But never mind, I will look forward to whatever time you have to share with us. 

Do take care, dear friend, 

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 10, 2014 at 8:29pm

Hi, gang.  It's been a busy, stressful and overwhelming few days.  I had a six-hour long orientation on Friday about everything related to kidney transplant surgery.  I listened to a long medical talk with all the details, had two physical examinations by two doctors, had at least a dozen vials of blood drawn, and met with both a dietician and a social worker.  Whew! 

Basically I'm ready both physically and mentally to go ahead with the surgery but with one exception.  I need to show that I have at least three or four months financial reserve available after the surgery that will not only pay my usual housing and living expenses but also to make sure my expensive insurance premium is kept up to date.  After the surgery I will be on about fifteen different medications and will require 24-hour care for the first two weeks alone.  The success of the transplant requires a lot of medical aftercare, and that cannot happen without insurance to pay for it.  

Today I had two doctors appointments.  I need to have two other surgeries before I can go ahead with the kidney transplant.  One is minor and will take place next week.  The second needs to be scheduled as soon as possible so I can heal.  In the meantime I need to raise money for my upcoming financial expenses. 

A stressful time for me?  Yeah, it sure is.  But I'm doing well.  My long-time regular doctor complimented me today on how calmly I'm talking all this.  He said I'm stronger than he thought!  lol 

Thanks again to all of you for your kind thoughts and expressions.  It really means a lot to me. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 10, 2014 at 6:07pm

Mindy, how many days has it been since you brought Charlie Girl into your home?  It can take a while...two weeks or more....for the older cats to adjust to a kitten that they did not give birth to. 

We have had the Black Blimp (5 years old) for a year now, and she and Pumpkin (almost 16) still are not cozy.  They aren't hissing and fighting, but they don't curl up together, either.  BUT I have also had young cats adopt us, and within a few weeks an older cat will be mothering it....the older cat is often a neutered male.

You just can't predict what will happen.

Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2014 at 1:42pm

Glad to year that you're enjoying yourself, Brent.

Hope the test goes well, Joan. A new pacemaker sounds routine. I too am pessimistic r.e. banks, large companies etc. Their entire reason for being is to accumulate money so it's extremely improbable that they're going to be "nice".

One I found on FB

Comment by Brent Feeney on November 10, 2014 at 1:24pm

Hey gang, hope all is well.

Been busy doing some writing for an on-line news site in my home area lately. Last Saturday I did TWO Illinois high school football playoff games - including voice-over for videos - and it was fun, but boy,was I wiped out after it was all over (including filing the stories and what not).

Was wondering if anyone would like to see the stuff I've done so far with them? Let me know either way and I'll post links here if interested.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 10, 2014 at 1:02pm

I'm also interested in how Charlie Girl is doing with the others.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 10, 2014 at 1:01pm

"Dead in a ditch" is funny if you're not the one worrying.

 

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