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Comment by booklover on May 29, 2014 at 12:34pm

Chris, I hope all of your work gets done before the end of summer!  It will be so nice for you to have everything settled, way less stress, and time for yourself! :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2014 at 12:31pm

Chris, I do hope this part of your life ends soon ... not wishing ill for your BIL. It is kind of like having buckets of challenges and this particular one seems bottomless. Makes it difficult to get on with your own affairs. My visual image of such formidable challenges is grit my teeth, bow my neck, clinch my fists, dig my feet in the ground and do what is necessary. AND RELAX. 

Easy to say! Impossible at time, to do! 

2 Hour Deep Meditation: Relax Mind Body, Spa Music, Background Musi...

I know, you don't have two hours to listen, however, you can listen for as long as you have time.

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2014 at 11:34am

sk8eycat I am with you on answering in four rings. Why hurt myself for a nonsense call. My phones were installed forty years ago; they are ancient by modern terms, but at least I can hear what people say to me, unless their phone, usually cell, is out of range to pick up their signal. Years ago, I took the phone apart and disconnected the ringer in my bedroom. There is a volume control on the living room phone and I turn it off when I have company or don't want to be disturbed.  

Comment by sk8eycat on May 29, 2014 at 10:00am

Patricia, most of the time, we let the answering machine pick up...unless we're expecting a call from someone.  If a caller can't be bothered to leave a message, then I can't be bothered to make a mad dash across loose throw rugs and stuff to catch the phone by the 4th ring. 

Before answering machines, cordless phones (and aggressive telemarketing), it used to be considered "only polite" for a caller to listen for 6 rings before hanging up.  Now 4 rings seems to be the maximum.  (Like I'm gonna take a cordless phone into the bathroom with me.  Eye.  Emm.  Sew.  Shurrrrr!)

Comment by Patricia on May 29, 2014 at 2:01am

It must be very stressful Plinius, & you'll be glad when it's done.

Yes, we could get an unlisted phone number, but my husband is rather a procrastinator, & as he's the retired telephone company employee with the lifetime perks, it has to be up to him to do something. If only HE was the one to answer the damn thing all the time.........

Comment by Plinius on May 29, 2014 at 1:26am

I love your family stories, Joan! Wonderful how positive these people are!

I'm sorry about your back, Ruth! Like sciatica, I guess. I hope you feel better soon.

 I can imagine you're worried about a BFF with an addiction, Booklover. But your daughter is a sensible person, who'll be careful.

Can you get a secret telephone number, Patricia? It helps a lot.

Husband and I are still working hard at brother-in-law's problems. We're still waiting for him to get a place in a care home, then we can move his stuff and his cat and sell his apartment. We're getting very tired of this job - there's not much left of our lives apart from working and sleeping. But perhaps the bulk of it can be finished before August.

Comment by Patricia on May 28, 2014 at 11:44pm

Has anyone else here been driven stark raving nuts with callers ''vanting do dalk do me about my vindowz gumputuh"?

I have demanded they stop calling, screamed at them, banged the phone on a hard surface, hung up, not answered at all, etc., but tonight I had TWO calls right at our dinner hour!!!!

So much for the ''do not call list''!!!!

AARRRRGH!!!!!

Comment by Patricia on May 28, 2014 at 11:36pm

I don't have a smart phone, but Amber Alerts get on tv right away, & I sometimes get them in an email from some of my newsletter sites. I am on Twitter, but am not really knowledgeable about how to use it.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 28, 2014 at 11:29pm

Patricia, I'm not on Facebook either but I do get Amber alerts on my smartphone.  Most often the kidnapper turns out to be a parent or other family member.  Our current technology has allowed very swift action and information to be released to the pubic.  I have to say, most times the Amber alerts are cancelled within a few hours because the child has been found. 

Hi, Ruth.  Glad you could come by and say hello.  I hope your condition improves.  I'm sending good thoughts your way.  You should expect them in Pennsylvania very soon. 

Comment by booklover on May 28, 2014 at 4:40pm

I'm sorry about your back Ruth!  I'm glad you are able to return to normal activities now.   I've had my gastro "stuff" acting-up lately, and gasp!, haven't been able to drink coffee!  But seriously some nausea and a very acid-y stomach. Yuck.

Joan, thanks for telling us about your neat family!  I love to hear how people live.

Carl, that cat-cloud-explosion bugs me. LOL

My daughter's BFF has graduated and is back in town.  My daughter is now on one of her "up" times, and although I'm glad for that, her friend always seems to be trouble.  Not bad trouble, my daughter just seems to blow all her money when she's with her, and her friend is an alcoholic, and my daughter shouldn't even drink with the meds she's on.  My daughter limits herself to 2-3 drinks over the course of an evening, sometimes less, never more (only when out with friends.)  It just seems like since they were little, they have gotten into "trouble" together.  Now that they are adults, I hope that changes.  My daughter moves in the middle of August to her apartment, to finish her degree.  It should take 18 months.  I'm hoping her friend, who finished her degree this semester, gets a job far away.  I also hope she acknowledges her drinking problem.  My daughter and another young woman tried to talk to  her about it, but she wouldn't listen.

 

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