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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:42pm

Sorry for the mistakes. Just woken up from my day's sleep. Yes. blAming and there.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:40pm

"Gift" in Danish means poison AND married. No comment from me.

Glad to hear that Dale is picking up.

Yes, Joan that's an impressive list.

My daughter has resigned from her job as she thought the dept. boss was an idiot, bleming her for things that weren't her fault After an interview with a senior boss, she's been offered something in another dept, so someone up their knows that there's something wrong at the local level. She's also decided definitely to move to Copenhagen in the new year when her bloke has finished his studies. There are greater opportunities in the capital for both of them.

Autumn has come to Denmark, with wind and rain but also occasional bouts of sunshine. It looks like I will have a small second crop of green cherry tomatoes, just right for pickles.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 13, 2014 at 12:48pm

Hi everyone! It is a blue sky day, cold, I'm feeling splendid and ready to get out into the garden. Hope everyone is doing well, has loads of people you like and enjoy around you. 

I haven't read the morning news yet, so thought I should get my greeting in before I ty to start solving all the problems of the world. 

My previous post this morning is my son, Craig's work background summary. I hope you are as impressed as I. I discovered it while I was looking for an old college friend. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 13, 2014 at 12:44pm

This looks impressive to me, does it to anyone else? 

Technology Architecture
Account Acquisition/Management
Product Roll-out
International Business
System Installation/Integration
Post-Sales Support
Team Leadership

Specialties: Theory, design, technical presentation and configuration of Core, Edge and Access networks. Manage customer projects from inception to completion.

BGP, EIGRP, Frame Relay, MPLS, MPLS-TE, OSPF, iSCSI SANs, WAN Optimization

Comment by sk8eycat on October 13, 2014 at 11:59am

Dale looks like a cutie-pie!  We have a black female short-hair...who looks like a blimp.  She has really bonded with my sister (who also looks like a blimp.)

"Gift" means "poison" in German?  THAT is fascinating!  It's sorta like the Hebrew word that has been mistranslated for centuries as "witch;" it really means "poisoner."

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 13, 2014 at 11:24am

There are times when you SHOULD look a gift horse in the mouth. (BTW "gift" in German means poison.)

Comment by sk8eycat on October 13, 2014 at 11:21am

Bertold, Thank for the comments re: Macs & PCs.  Now that I think about it, the Mac fans I know ARE more interested in the artistic side of things, while I have spent most of my adult life (not counting the years I was skating) as a bookkeeper/payroll clerk/tax preparer.  And I still occasionally do a few little jobs for friends that require using Word and Excel.

That's one reason I'm so annoyed that this laptop has no 10-key calculator pad.  The tech guy who is helping/trying to get my Dell up and running again brings his own PC laptop with him, and it does have a 10-key pad, so there's definitely room for everything if the designer really thinks about what's needed.

But this Mac was a "gift." Used by someone I thought was a friend for 3 years until she switched to a iPad.  She asked if I wanted this Mac, and I decided to give it a try as a backup....so she shipped it down here from Oregon.  Ok, fine.

3 months after she did that, she phoned me...ON MY BIRTHDAY...(which she knew)...and asked if I had mastered the thing yet.  When I said, "not really," she got very hissy, and told me to return it so she could donate it to her garden club.  I could not pay for the packing and shipping, and I asked her if I could keep trying.  Dead silence. It's been nearly a year, and I haven't heard Word One from her since.

Maybe I should post this in the discussion about forgiving people.  My answer would be, "No.  Not really.  Not when you find out someone thinks of you as a servant."  (I started out 20+ years ago as her part-time dog sitter when she still lived in Pasadena.)

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 13, 2014 at 11:14am

Mindy, I must hop-in to say I'm pleased that Dale is back to eating, drinking, and being alert.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 13, 2014 at 11:03am

Mindy, I'm glad Dale is feeling better these days.  Looking forward to seeing a photo of your new kitten.  :)

Patricia, that's a great photo!  Happy Thanksgiving to you!

I hope all of you have a great week.   

Comment by Randall Smith on October 13, 2014 at 7:28am
Wow, Patricia--what a great photo, taken at just the right moment! Priceless!
No comment on computers or cats. As Ian says, I'm phlegmatic about either.

Joan, keep on writing, even if it is only for just the fun of it. I'm sorta addicted to A/N, too.
Sk8, nice to have you back. I, too, love your wit and insight.
 

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