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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud on Sunday. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 6, 2014 at 10:48pm

Thanks to all of you for your well wishes for me.  I'm meeting tomorrow with a kidney surgeon, giving blood samples for testing and learning more about the timeline for my transplant surgery.  I'm hoping that from here on the process will proceed quickly.  I'll know a lot more after tomorrow. 

I've never been on Facebook or any other social website other than Atheist|Nexus.  I agree with you Nick, I'd rather have a few great friends than a huge group of acquaintances. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2014 at 7:07pm

This from my granddaughter, Laurie, the one who is so concerned about making friends on Facebook. Maybe she is growing up.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2014 at 7:02pm

Ruth, what a terrible experience you have with installing alternative power sources. The technology just hasn't reached the consumer yet. I would continue to look for a reputable installer and product.

I called the owner of the company that installed my, wonderful furnace and asked him when they are going to start installing and performing the maintenance on them. He said is it is still our of the price range of most homeowners, but the cost is coming down. The problem is storage ... meaning batteries ... and when that is solved, the solar systems will be affordable for middle income families. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2014 at 5:43pm

Randy, I enjoy your writings about your family gathering. The food you describe sounds so good. I have probably had a persimmon, but I don't remember it. I will have to go on a hunt to get one. I await your description of your family's activities and hope your health doesn't dull the edges for you. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 6, 2014 at 3:52pm

If you wondered where I've been the past month, we tried to getr a solar panel installation for back up power. <sigh>

I made the mistake of buying a system really meant for a remote cabin, not a suburban townhouse. We tried to get a solar contractor to install it, and an electrician, and finally the electrician recommended personally by the seller. None would install it. They all said, "Send it back."

Tomorrow FedEx is supposed to pick up the boxed generator, batteries, and solar panels for return to the seller. We lost over $100 in various fees, plus tons of time, energy, and stress.

We then looked into gasoline generators. Totally wrong for someone with a microscopic yard, and no place to safely store either the generator or spare gas. <sigh> We're too far from gas lines. Finally we've given up on getting emergency power.

Just spent my entire day boxing the damned system up, setting up a Fed Ex account and getting mailing labels. Naturally I forgot one wire, which I'll have to mail separately.

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Anybody have positive experience with back up power?

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 6, 2014 at 3:09pm

So do I, Carl!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 6, 2014 at 2:39pm

Carl - I also want to wish you luck tomorrow!

Comment by Pat on November 6, 2014 at 2:29pm

@Carl. Good luck on the appointment tomorrow. If it's any source of comfort, my daughter was the victim of a hit and run in Chicago about 6 years ago, and her leg was broken in about 4 places. She went to Northwestern, and to this day, walks and runs without a limp, and bicycles about 15 miles a day. The care she received was absolutely excellent.

@Randall. Persimmon pudding sounds mighty tasty. Sorry about the cold, but persimmons are high in anti-oxidants; especially vitamin C. You may be multi-tasking. Enjoying great food while at the same treating the symptoms. Enjoy the time with your family.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 6, 2014 at 11:17am

Glad to hear that Charlie is adapting and having fun.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2014 at 11:13am

Carl, my thoughts remain with you as you prepare for tomorrows appointment at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago. 

 

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