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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Randall Smith on October 31, 2014 at 7:46am

Carl, that animation is still clever after all these (those?) years.

Enjoyed all the DST comments/explanations. Indiana was with Arizona up until about 8 years ago. Boo hiss.

Comment by Plinius on October 31, 2014 at 3:24am

Thanks Carl! Must have been fifty years ago that I saw the Silly Symphony! Happy Halloween, all of you!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 31, 2014 at 1:19am

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 30, 2014 at 8:45pm

During the summer, when staying in the garden all day, I have marks on one of the boxes to indicate the daytime hours. I get so I can look at the shadows cast by a stick stuck in the ground, or look at shadows of the chairs and I can pretty well tell the time. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 30, 2014 at 8:41pm

My memory of daylight saving time comes from being a child during WW II. It was claimed to save energy for production of goods and services, that day light was needed to reduce the use of alternative light sources. 

"The energy saving benefits of Summer Time were recognized during World War II,"

Rationale and original idea

Of course, I am not meeting any schedule these days ... one of th benefits of retirement. However, since my retirement, I wake up with the sun and go to bed with the sun. It works for me just fine. No involvement with the clock at all. 

Let us remember that time is also a construct of man's mind. It is all relative to the seasons. Having GMT sets a standard for all to follow.  

When I lived in Alaska for two years, we had two hours of daylight in the winter and two hours of night in the summer. Living in southern Texas was quite different, but I can't remember if it caused me any distress or not. I think not. Some people had to put window covers to prevent daylight in summer. I didn't have a problem, but then, I didn't have to be any where on time.

Comment by Plinius on October 30, 2014 at 4:24pm

It always takes a week or so to get adjusted - I wonder who profits from DST?

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 30, 2014 at 3:59pm

I'm a very early morning person, and I hate Daylight "Savings" Time.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 30, 2014 at 3:57pm

@Grinning Cat: there's also a spike in evening traffic accidents in the fall for about a week after we obediently turn our clocks back.  People not used to driving home in the dark.

What I've hated for most of my adult life, is that nearly every job had me facing east while driving to work in the morning, and facing the setting sun at "night" on my way home.

The very least they could do is shorten DST to 6 months...on the summer & winter solstices.....  Would make more sense. 

Maybe.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 30, 2014 at 3:49pm

In the 1950s and earlier, ALL railroads ran on Standard Time year-round. It made more sense, especially for long-distance trains that crossed 3 or 4 time zones during a trip.

In the summer of 1957, I was in Minot ND, and they were trying DST for the very first time.  It was chaos!  Twilight at midnight, and noisy kids driving around and around the (then) tiny business district....and we had to be up at 6:30 to get ready for all-day rehearsals that began at 8AM. I was only 17, but it was the first time I really wanted to slap somebody....I just didn't know who.

I don't know when it changed, but Arizona is now the only state that doesn't "do" DST.  Almost worth moving there just for that.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 30, 2014 at 1:46pm

GC - I read that a few months back and can't recall what the article was. I tried to find it in Goog News, but no luck. Sorry.

 

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