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Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 10:25am

Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 9:11am
Comment by booklover on May 1, 2014 at 8:30am

That's true Chris, but caring advice then, not mean judgement. :)

I didn't visit my "father" before he died either.  I hadn't seen him since I was 5.  My cousin told me, "He did love you."  I told her you couldn't love someone you didn't know.  And if he loved us why did he not even pay my mom child support?  It didn't make me sad in the least when he died.  I didn't know him.

Yes Ian!  Happy May Day!  I wish the weather would act like it around here! :)

Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 1:13am
Comment by Plinius on May 1, 2014 at 1:09am

But Booklover, I'm not at all sure if we're non-judgemental friends - it's a friend's duty to warn you when you go wrong - so there's judgement.

Be true to yourself, Patricia, I hope Monday comes soon for you. Perhaps it's no more than a "I want to .... before I die"visit. Hard enough! My father wanted me to visit him before he died, but I decided not to play along and never showed up. It still feels good, even after all the reproaches.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 1:08am

"Cramming for finals", an Autralian nursing-home term for old people who get religion and/or crave forgiveness towards the end.

On the other hand, I think my daughter found my apologies to her when I did my AA 9th step as too little too late. I have to live with that and try to have a future with her.

This "Inner Fish" sounds good. I'll give it a try.

This won't mean much to people outside England but it turns out that Wilko Johnson's otherwise terminal cancer is operable, even though he will loose a lot of his insides. Here's a link to him in his young years. He's the guitarist.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzF0AETdRF8

Comment by k.h. ky on April 30, 2014 at 10:59pm
You're welcome Joan. I'm really enjoying it. Patricia, hang in there and chill. I deal with the b/p too so just remember to take your meds . Maybe your mom just wants to see you. I hate it that your daughter is a fundie. All my family, except my daughter, are so l know what that's like.
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2014 at 10:34pm

k.h. ky, I hunted for "My Inner Fish" on computer and so far have only found the trailers for it. So I Googled for the author and found a video from Finding Your Inner Fish 2009 and it is terrific! Dr. Neil Shubin is to evolutionary paleontology that Neil deGrasse Tyson is to astrophysics. Thanks for the lead! 

Comment by Patricia on April 30, 2014 at 10:25pm

Thanks guys! I can't do the toxic crap so I'll have to play it by ear this weekend. It just sort of bugs me that it's not like a coffee or lunch date.....they are staying here for 2 days, & I am going to have to watch my blood pressure. I am not great in the tact department & am a lot mouthier than I ever used to be, but I can't get into things that will make me boil over. Been there done that....over & over & over again to no avail.

Comment by booklover on April 30, 2014 at 10:12pm
You have the right attitude Patricia! You are a smart and strong woman, and I'm sorry you've had all this go on in your life. You have good support here from non-judgemental friends. <3
 

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