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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Patricia on November 13, 2014 at 2:06am

Ask anything you like Plinius.

I am always sort of waiting for the next episode as he's had so many, but mostly I live for today, the fact he is here today & try not to futurize (my new word) too much.

After I had cancer & it's treatments, I found I could not think of the future at all. Tomorrow will come whether we're here or not, & I can't live for tomorrow. I also have absolutely no patience for many things now, & try not to put myself into positions I don't want to be in.

Comment by Plinius on November 13, 2014 at 1:31am

No doubt that you're happy that your husband is still around, Patricia, but what did it to you, all the watching and caring you did and not knowing if he would live? Perhaps I shouldn't ask.

Comment by Plinius on November 13, 2014 at 1:17am

Hi, good to see Patricia back! I haven't been away, just work and a double helping of migraine. I should lead a wishywashy life without all the extra tasks to avoid the migraine, but there's no one else to delegate them to - so I just go on. I enjoy Mindy and Joan's family stories very much - so many loving people! Hope you all have a wonderful Thursday!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 12, 2014 at 9:33pm

Randy, does your home, without the visiting children and grandchildren, kind of echo their sounds after they are gone?

My house just rings with laughter, music and the memory of things that happened while they were here. The little five year old headed for the music part of the living room where I keep the ukulele, ocarina, Ozark harp, tambourine, drums, triangle, harmonica, maracas, castanets, and the dozen or so kazoos. There is also an old organ that doesn't work anymore, but they pretend to play the two keyboards and footboard. Before you know it, they each have an instrument of their choice and march around the house. The sounds they make are more like cacophony, but a wonderful concert to my ears.  

I am content!

Comment by Patricia on November 12, 2014 at 9:20pm

Thanks, Joan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 12, 2014 at 9:11pm

I am getting behind on reading mail again. Being retired means I don't make time for the things I love to do, and one of my greatest pleasures is reading A/N mail.

My cousin from Hayden Lake, Idaho, came over this morning for our annual autumn chat ... we have one in the spring and several throughout the summer, if possible. It feels so good to chat with her. She and I hold very similar views on gardening, economics, politics and religion, and when we differ, we don't get angry or make a fuss.  I enjoy these topics, and so does she. Her father was the superior court judge and he was very hard on her. Thankfully, she was able to pull away from his influence and created a successful business of her own. Hard-headed business woman with deep feelings of compassion for those who can't break away from traditional values. She is now retired and about to do her yearly migration to live in the south.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 12, 2014 at 9:07pm

Patricia, I am so happy you are posting on A/N again. I missed your bright humor and insights. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 12, 2014 at 8:16pm

Oh! Yes!

"Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori, 

"It is sweet and fitting to die for the homeland,

BUT, read on:

sed dulcius pro patria vivere, et dulcissimum pro patria bibere. Ergo, bibamus pro salute patriae." 

"but sweeter still to live for the homeland, and sweetest yet to drink for the homeland. So, let us drink to the health of the homeland."

Comment by Patricia on November 12, 2014 at 7:48pm

The first heart attack at age 42 should have killed him. Then at 47 he had another, with a blood clot breaking away & lodging in his brain 2 days later, giving him the stroke. Seeing 50, & then 60 was really something, & now 70. The medical people said his will to live was very strong. He wants to see 80, & he just may do it.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 12, 2014 at 7:45pm

Mindy, don't worry.  You've posted today.  I'm keeping track of you.

Funny you should mention Chris, I was just thinking the same thing about her this morning. 

 

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