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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 3. 58 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Saving Number 90 - From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 1. 9 Replies

Seth says himself that the following is a departure from the usual fare his YouTube channel features.  Personally, I think it's a positive and constructive move, because it demonstrates that no, we are NOT just about atheism.  We're also very much…Continue

Tags: abuse, animal, puppy mills, Henry, The Thinking Atheist

Human Rights for Atheists, Agnostics and Secularists

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jun 27. 11 Replies

I just ran onto this YouTube video, promoting a change.org petition aimed at amending the United Nations charter supporting the abolition of all anti-blasphemy laws. The petition referenced by the video is…Continue

Tags: petition, anti-blasphemy laws, UN, United Nations

Something we should all think about.....

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jun 19. 2 Replies

Got this in my email today...........Patricia - There's a new petition taking off on Change.org, and we think you might be interested in signing it:Google Maps: Help people with mobility challenges. Make your maps accessible!By Randy…Continue

Religious Calling (Mrs. Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller Jun 17. 0 Replies

Very curious - a Betty Bowers video with NO Betty Bowers!  Yahweh IS here, though, and he's gotten all 21st century with his own cell phone!!!  Can't help but notice that he's a bit selective with just WHO he wants to talk to.  Meh ... got to keep…Continue

Tags: cell phone, Yahweh, Betty Bowers

Ontario Premier, Kathleen Wynne

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Randall Smith Jun 15. 1 Reply

Kathleen Wynne is Ontario’s 25th Premier. She was first elected to the Ontario legislature in 2003 as the MPP for Don Valley West, and she became the leader of the Ontario Liberal Party in January 2013.Kathleen is dedicated to building a better…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 7:28pm

I look for and read things that seem important to know and to develop my position on the topic at hand. I, too, don't look for the funny and don't see it until someones points it out.  Spud, you and I could be related. And I enjoyed the flies around stuff comment of sk8eycat
Compounding that fact, I am getting more concerned about religion and what it does to thinking. Knowing even sophisticated scientists fall for that religious claptrap, makes me shudder! 

Looking on the bright side, we have Dawkins, Krauss, Dennett, and 

Dale McGowan

Ayaan Hirsi Ali

Richard Carrier 

Hemant Mehta 

Michael Newdow 

James Randi

Julian Assange 

David Suzuki

Peter Boghossian

Richard Leakey

Sean Faircloth,  

Ricky Gervais

Seth MacFarlane

Quite a nice assortment of people to read, from whom to gain ideas. 

Comment by Loren Miller on April 4, 2014 at 6:41pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 4, 2014 at 4:38pm

Example: "Lots of flies around that stuff." makes me smile, although I would almost never think of it myself.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 4, 2014 at 4:35pm

Yes, Joan, I am becoming less serious as time goes on, but I still see the serious side of things a great deal, and I very seldom see humor in most things until they are pointed-out to me.

Once something humorous is pointed-out, I do appreciate a fair amount of it, and smile at it, but not as much as a lot of people it seems.

Stupidity is almost never humorous to me, although I do quite often appreciate jokes about it here on A/N.

People hurting or embarrassing other people are almost never humorous to me, even if the butt of the joke is an ass.

Crudeness and vulgarity are usually not humorous either, although there are exceptions.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 4, 2014 at 4:27pm

Back in the 1980s, Harlan Ellison referred to the family Joan mentioned below as "Shitfly in his column in the Los Angeles Free Press. 

Gross, bit it fits.  (and it's another reason I refer to a certain collection of myths and fables as the buybull.  Lotsa flies around that stuff.)

Comment by Patricia on April 4, 2014 at 1:47pm

Personally, I have to work at humor since it's not my natural self. Negativity was the norm with very little in the laugh department, & not many good memories as a kid. I had to meet my husband & his family to begin to come out of it.....but it still takes effort.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 1:44pm

If you need a reason to take atheism to the general public, just glance through Andrew Schlafly. It raises all kinds of concerns in me and there are those who believe him. He worked as a device physicist for Intel, an electrical engineer at the applied physics laboratory of Johns Hopkins University, and Bell Labs.

Schlafly also became a member of the New York State Bar, served as an adjunct professor of administrative law at Seton Hall Law School and worked as an attorney at a New York City law firm. Currently, he is General Counsel for the Association of American Physicians and Surgeons

He spreads his virus all through the educated community, even among engineers, lawyers, physicians and surgeons. 

His famous mother, Phyllis Schlafly, raised an interesting fellow, indeed.  

A Young Earth Creationist, his beliefs spew out of him like a fog of delusions infecting others near and far. 

His beliefs include distain of books, disrespect for academic qualifications, politicization of curriculum, unusual beliefs about hygiene, conflicting view about the bible, he a began Bible Retranslation Project and The Conservative Bible Project to correct errors in the bible that were not conservative enough, and he created an online encyclopedia, Conservapedia spouting conservative values.  

Andrew Schlafly is only one reason he and those who teach, preach, and legislate with these values perform like a virus, infecting those who see, hear, and read his beliefs. 

A virus spreads much faster and infects more exposed people than ancestry. A virus infects here and now, even as coughing and sneezing spread virus faster than infection through the skin. 

His ideas do not lead to flourishing ... for individuals, families, communities, nations and the Earth. 

"Tim Brooks of Public Health England told The Guardian that the Black Death was a pneumonic version of the disease—an airborne infection of the lungs, spread via coughing and sneezing—instead of bubonic—an infection that enters through the skin, infects the lymph system and is spread by rat fleas."

Bones Tell Black Death Story

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 4, 2014 at 1:08pm

Joan, you've mentioned several times in the past that you are humorless.  If you don't mind me asking, have you always felt this way about yourself?  Were you that way as a child?  I'm just very curious if your past episodes with abuse somehow may have stolen any possibility from you to fully enjoy everyday humor. 

For myself, I've grown up and lived my entire life laughing.  Laughing at myself, sharing good laughs with family and friends, laughing at the absurdities that life presents to us.  At the same time, even as a child I enjoyed sitting with adults to listen to their conversations, so my life wasn't just one big laugh fest.  You're situation is very foreign to me. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 11:35am

Spud, I am afflicted with lack of the same humor gene as you, it appears. Well, we are loosening up a little bit. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 11:32am

If you want a real treat take a peek at Charles Cusumano page. He is serious, intelligent, and angry ... in a funny sort of way. 

 

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