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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Plinius on November 20, 2014 at 2:23pm

Your family always know how to hurt you - and mine never missed an opportunity. Try to forget Carl, or some day you suddenly close the door to them. And I hope you'll feel better soon!

Comment by Patricia on November 20, 2014 at 1:47pm

I agree Carl, it is an insult, & from someone who should know better.

My family members, (mummy dear, & my daughter & son-in-law) have been told the subject must stay closed if they expect any sort of civility from me. Otherwise, I do really well at cold shoulder.

Cold shoulder is still in place for mummy dear after she dumped me years ago, & has only last year decided she should speak to me. This isn't even about the moronism, just the fact she & dear ol' dad dropped me after he got pissed at something my husband said & we don't even know what it was.

"Daddy" died several years ago & mummy dear moved back to Canada nearly 3 years ago, but I didn't find out until I asked my daughter. I got a birthday card 2 years ago, postmarked from right here in BC. I had been trying to keep my daughter out of the differences, but methinks her grandmother didn't.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 20, 2014 at 1:01pm

I've been a bit absent from here.  I'm feeling fine, just very tired.  I was supposed to have a consultation with a surgeon this week concerning a quick, small surgery for my arm to ready myself for dialysis in case I get to that point.  At the last minute the doctor's office cancelled and told me the doctor will be out of the office until mid-December.  Ugh!  

But here's my real rant.......

The other day I was on the telephone with my mother, a church-going believer.  She said, Carl, I know you don't want to hear this, but everyone I talk to, our friends and acquaintances, all say they are praying for you.  Prayer works.

I have to honestly say that I truly felt insulted by that remark.  When I hear strangers say to me, "Have a blessed day" or when I hear them say to each other, "I'll pray for you,"  I just roll my eyes.  But hearing such a sentiment from my own mother at this time really bothered me.  It's such an insult to my intelligence, especially coming from a family member. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 20, 2014 at 9:20am

I remember a cartoon right after the Supremes handed the presidential election to Bush by a 5-4 vote: "I demand a recount!"

Comment by sk8eycat on November 20, 2014 at 8:45am

Too bad Cheney didn' blast Scalia with his shotgun while they were out hunting drinks....would have improved his face:

Dishonorable SCOTUS Justice to American Democracy: 'Go Fuck Yourself'
RELATED: Al Gore Must Run Again...
By Brad Friedman on 1/25/2007, 11:52am PT  

AP reports the following comments made Tuesday by the unimpeached Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia concerning his decision to overthrow American democracy in the 2000 Presidential Election:

"It's water over the deck - get over it," Scalia said, drawing laughs from his audience.

We wonder what other decisions by the SCOTUS that Americans should "get over." We wonder if the voters of Florida who were denied their expressed intent to elect Al Gore should also "get over it." Doubtless, the more than 3000 U.S. troops killed by George W. Bush's unnecessary war have no choice but to "get over it."

Deceptively attempting to justify his wholly incorrect and unconstitutional decision by playing the unequally applied "Equal Protection Clause" card once again, Scalia reportedly added, "Counting somebody else's dimpled chad and not counting my dimpled chad is not giving equal protection of the law."

Interestingly enough, Scalia and the SCOTUS have stood by and allowed all forms of un-Equal Protection in Elections ever since --- from the myriad different voting systems and "standards" now used, to the myriad ways in which votes by voters in the very same county are counted differently and at different times. In other words, the repugnant democracy-hating Scalia is full of shit.

As pointed out --- though somewhat cryptically --- in the AP piece by Mark Sherman, subsequent study of the actual ballots in the state of Florida in 2000 showed that, in fact, had all of the them actually been counted (we know, it's a quaint idea) Gore would have won [PDF] the state, and thus the Presidency.

Speaking of which, Rolling Stone's Tim Dickinson says: Run, Al, Run. We concur, and offer John Lennon's "(Just Like) Starting Over" as our suggestion for the campaign's victory song.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 20, 2014 at 8:08am

Scalia considers himself a curmudgeon with his "cute" comments in and out of court session. And he wouldn't recuse himself from a case involving Dick Cheney after going hunting with him! Unfortunately, justices are lifers. The conservatives are too ignorant (and stubborn) to leave the court. Clarence Thomas was voted in (barely) at age 46, so he's going to be there for another 20 years! Horrors.  We all remember how Bush stole the election from Al Gore, thanks to the not-so-Supreme Court.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 19, 2014 at 7:55am

As a liberal, I've always been angry with most decisions of the Supreme Court, and now I see that I'm not alone. In The Case Against the Supreme Court, Erwin Chemerinsky elaborates on many of the ridiculous rulings handed down over the years. He's especially hard on the current Roberts court, and why shouldn't he be. We all know why. Still, it's good to have it in print. The author also details possible solutions to "the problem", but I'm not holding my breath.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 17, 2014 at 5:42pm

Squirrel's Directorial Debut (from Cheezburger)

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 17, 2014 at 2:38pm

Sorry about your daughter's grandfather, Ian. 

Comment by Patricia on November 17, 2014 at 1:58pm

Those cartoons made me chuckle!

 

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