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The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller 1 hour ago. 2 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 5, 2014 at 10:04pm

Kevin Carter fell prey to feelings of helplessness, hopelessness and depression. Human suffering caused by human action continues. In order to gain victory over depression, we need to work at keeping our spirits up. We are not helpless victims. We can take action to predict and control, to some degree, what happens to us. 

One way is to do what Patricia, Carl, Felaine, Mindy, Daniel and the rest of us are doing, preventive checkups. By the way, have you had your cancer check up this year? 

Between 1500 and 1800 A.D. the average lifespan was 30 to 40 years. Today's life expectancy is 75 + years. This was not because we prayed harder, it was because we understand hygiene and because of medical advances through research. We are lucky to be alive, as Richard Dawkins claims, and we are fortunate to live in a country that respects modern science. For those who don't respect it, well, too bad for them. Education would help them too. 

Even as it is easy to become discouraged, it is hard to stay positive and pro-active. Waking up to a new day with gratitude, taking on each challenge with determination, loving, caring and with compassion for life and living, we make each day count. Life is precious. We have all that it takes to meet our challenges with poise. We exist as social animals, needing and giving a sense of community to and with each other. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 5, 2014 at 9:35pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 5, 2014 at 9:22pm

Patricia and Joan, I agree.  As gruesome and excruciatingly horrible some images are to look at, it's utterly important for the betterment of humanity to know about and to see the grossly inhumane and unjust conditions of our fellow peoples.  For one to say that such images are too disgusting to view is to be part of the problem.  We should not be immune to their suffering.

Comment by Patricia on December 5, 2014 at 9:03pm

Well when I've known about the MD for decades, I had to inform the eye dr. as well as my family dr. that it's in my history, & then I expect them to check me each time when I get my exams.

I am also the first to develop breast cancer so these things start somewhere, history or not.

I feel like looking up email addresses for churches or any religious place, missionary types, & bybull thumping fanatics, etc., & start forwarding these pictures to them!!! They need some wake up & smell the coffee butt-kicking!!!!

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 5, 2014 at 8:28pm

Patricia, I am glad you keep tract of the progress of your eyes. Like cancer, other diseases can come from out of nowhere and catch us off guard.

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 5, 2014 at 8:26pm

Patricia, I agree that the photos revealing reality must be posted, often and as many as it takes to wake people up. I hesitated about showing some of the other photos Kevin took, but here goes: 

Comment by Patricia on December 5, 2014 at 7:48pm

Oh yeah, I've always worn sunglasses while out, but now I've ordered the surround type to stop the sun from getting into the top & sides & 100% UVA/UVB protection. They will fit over my regular glasses.

Comment by Patricia on December 5, 2014 at 7:10pm

I never donate to anything unless I'm damn sure of where it's going Felaine, but thanks for that name, will file that away.

Comment by Patricia on December 5, 2014 at 7:06pm

I don't have MD yet Joan. This check up showed the spots that are the pre-cursors which means it is highly likely to develop whenever.

My grandmother had it before it was known what it was, mummy dear was diagnosed over a decade ago, & I had to have yearly check ups to watch for it, rather than every 2 years.

I was told a long time ago that I had cataracts developing but they were slow & I have no symptoms other than the usual age related deterioration. I started with reading glasses in my mid 40s, to bifocals, to trifocals, but these spots are the first sign of anything toward the MD.

There is the ''dry'' kind & the ''wet'' kind, & granny & mummy had/have the ''wet'' kind, which is the worst of the two. New treatments are occurring all the time, so who knows what the future holds for it?

So much for hoping it would skip a generation. Now my daughter has to watch for it as it seems to be the women in the equation.

Years ago, when I told the optometrist the history, I was told to eat lots of vegetables, & take Lutein.

Comment by sk8eycat on December 5, 2014 at 7:02pm

Patricia, always go to Charity Navigator before donating money to any org.  Of course in the US, churches don't have to file anything with the IRS detailing how much they take in, and what they spend it on....but all other non-profits DO.  That's where Navigator gets its info, and posts it online.

 

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