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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 30, 2014 at 12:57pm

Mindy, how nice to have a son or daughter who is a good listener! We parents need such people around us.  

Comment by booklover on January 30, 2014 at 8:05am

I agree Ian.  I just don't think my 19 year old son would be comfortable asking his co-worker what happened.  If the guy (he's in his upper 20's I think) were to tell what happened, then my son would be a good listener. 

Comment by Plinius on January 30, 2014 at 1:02am

Congratulations Ian!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 29, 2014 at 10:21pm

Ian, I like your way. 

Comment by Ian Mason on January 29, 2014 at 10:05pm

As regards loss: it's not what you say but how much and how well you listen. It's almost always a good thing to ask "what happened"? Bereaved parents have a real need for patient listeners who "just" listen and don't try to solve problems or find a deeper meaning.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 29, 2014 at 8:39pm

What Joan said Ian.  Nice.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 29, 2014 at 8:29pm

Ian, a beautiful and brainy daughter. You must be very proud!

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 29, 2014 at 8:28pm

I still have a hard time knowing how to respond to someone's loss, even at my age.  My next door neighbor died last year.  Her husband the year before.  Her son came over to tell me and I just didn't know what to say to him, mainly because I don't know him that well.

A coincidental occurrence happened today as I was getting my blood drawn for a LAB report, the woman drawing it said "You look familiar."  I couldn't place her face and asked if she knew my dad.  She said no.

After a couple of minutes she said "don't you live next to where my parents used to live?  I live around the corner.  Then I knew who she was.  I didn't recognize her because I've never talked with her before.  I've talked to her husband and son and most of the rest of their relatives that live in this area. 

Anyway, we talked about her mother & father as well as mine.

And, she did a good job of drawing blood.  The last time I had a lab, the young guy lost the vein and had a lot of trouble finding it again.  Had a big bruise for a week.  Never going to that place again.

I had a good discussion with my new doctor today that may be an agnostic.  I plan on feeling him out to see what his religious beliefs are (or lack thereof).  But so far I like him!

Comment by booklover on January 29, 2014 at 7:18pm

The guy wasn't at work today, of course, my son said.  I don't know if he'll say what happened.  I know my son would never ask.  Just so sad.

Comment by Patricia on January 29, 2014 at 6:44pm

So sad about the baby! Lots of low birth weight babies don't die so it has to be something else.

Great news Ian, congrats to your daughter!!! 

 

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