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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat 22 hours ago. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Patricia yesterday. 4 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Tuesday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 21. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 20. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on August 23, 2012 at 1:01am

Paula, my condolences. I can't add anything to the words others have shared. I hope all goes well on Saturday.

Patricia, glad to hear that you had support from people who really care. They are the ones who matter and who will return the favour by asking for your support when they need it.

Just come home from a night's work and this is the first place I look. Fun pics and kind words that create a good feeling. Thanks, all. Won't wear ANY of the hats though.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 23, 2012 at 12:48am

Patricia, The pain you experience with your mother runs deep; that is the bad news. The good news is I hear you have spunk, and loving family and friends around you and I celebrate that with you. We are on this Earth for such a small period of time; being with toxic people, even if they are family, is just not worth it. The sun comes up and sets and you can enjoy it with or without the poison of others. I do hope you have peace and comfort knowing that you are special, unique, and can be happy, even as you need to protect yourself from toxic relationships 

Comment by Tony Carroll on August 22, 2012 at 10:47pm

Paula, my sincere condolences to you and your family, and to all those who loved your father. May your speech give aid and comfort to all, particularily to you. To speak of the person that you so obviously loved dearly, and to share him with others is to renew that bond of love. A bond that you will continue to share during the rest of your life. Yes, he will be missed, but he will continue to be loved, and his love will continue to be active in your life, spreading joy (and yes, some pain), throughout your remaining years. As you have so rightfully said, his part in the cosmic dance will continue, his presence in the universe unfolding is as it should be. His energy, 'essence' if you will, cannot be destroyed, but will take part the continuing existence and evolution of the cosmos. I will be thinking of you. Peace to you and yours.

Comment by Steph S. on August 22, 2012 at 10:43pm

Condolences Paula.

Sorry to hear about your dad.

My thoughts are with you.

Comment by Steph S. on August 22, 2012 at 10:34pm
I love the dog with subwoofers Tony!
Thanks!
Comment by Paula T. on August 22, 2012 at 10:28pm
My dad passed away almost 6 weeks ago and his memorial is this Saturday. I've decided to speak, along with one of my sisters. I doubt my other sister and brother will do so and that's ok. I'm used to talking in front of crowds and feel I'd like to share a few memories and how important it is to say three simple words - I love you - with your loved ones. My most cherished memory is that during my dad's last months is that he started to say "I love you". Knowing that, hearing that, was incredibly rewarding. My dad wasn't one to share his feelings.

It is also incredibly comforting to think my dad is still part of the universe, rather than sitting on a cloud, waiting for us to join him.
Comment by Paula T. on August 22, 2012 at 10:19pm
I'm loving these animal pictures! <3
Patricia, I'm so sorry to hear about the lack of support from your parents, but very happy to know you did have support that was close by. I can't imagine not wanting to see my children!
Comment by booklover on August 22, 2012 at 10:07pm

I love the sub-woofers Tony! Thanks for the smile!~ Melinda

Comment by Tony Carroll on August 22, 2012 at 10:05pm

This made me smile. For you  all.

Comment by Tony Carroll on August 22, 2012 at 9:47pm

Love the mouse picture. Am gonna collect it. Thanks.

As Melinda and Steph have said, I am sorry to hear about yours and everyones family troubles. We all have them. I'm just glad you have extended family to turn to. Love. It truly DOES make the world turn. We are here also, though all we can do is offer our love and support long distance. But you always have that. Best to you and yours. Be well.

 

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