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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat yesterday. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Patricia yesterday. 4 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Tuesday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 21. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 20. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on September 7, 2012 at 11:17pm
I love the poem you wrote Tony! Beautiful!
Lovely photo too!
Comment by Tony Carroll on September 7, 2012 at 11:12pm

Getting ready to go to sleep. Have to get up and go to work tomorrow. A little something for all of yoy, my friends.

28 Days

     He gathers. For 28 days he gathers. Roses, orchids, lilys, carnations, any and all flowers he can find. For Selene. His Selene.

     For he knows she is lonely. Achingly, torturedly, excrutiatingly lonely. And only his gift, lovingly offered, holds the pain in check, renews the spirit, allowing her to wax and wane, shining in the night sky.  For 28 days.

    For tonight he will gather his gift, mount the Pegasus and ride. Ride her moonbeam hair to her cold mansion of reflected glory, and lay, at her feet as she slumbers, his gift of renewal.

     Then to return, to rest but for a moment, only to gather again. For 28 days. For Selene. His Selene.

 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 7, 2012 at 11:11pm

Derek Bly, I don't see socializing as a crutch. We human beings need to socialize, it's not a bad thing. However, Atheists haven't created a  huge variety of concrete opportunities to socialize. Were a UU church near enough, I'd be tempted to try. But woo might drive me out. I experimented with UU for a year as a college senior, but I'm more discriminating now.

Good for you sk8eycat, for bailing on the engagement. I bailed on my first engagement when my fiance showed symptoms of being an abuser after several months. Never regretted that either.

Comment by Tony Carroll on September 7, 2012 at 10:05pm

Joan, as usual, anytime. Whatever I have is yours, repost away.

I'm with the mule. I LOVE parfait!! LOL. :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2012 at 10:00pm

Tony, wonderful cartoon. I am reposting!

Comment by Steph S. on September 7, 2012 at 9:50pm

Patricia I love that rosary comic (on the rearview mirror) and the cat and dog picture!

Funny comic Tony!

Comment by Steph S. on September 7, 2012 at 9:48pm

Booklover I love the Atheist cat - I actually have that one on my webpage in with my pictures!

And yeah Flying Atheist - Ruth has a wonderful group here in which we can share each others company.

Comment by Steph S. on September 7, 2012 at 9:46pm

Tony I love the Toucan tropical bird that you posted here - beautiful. It's so nice to come home and get all caught up on the posts here. Just now reading back through the day.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

Comment by Tony Carroll on September 7, 2012 at 8:56pm

Hey guys. Back from work.Long day. Anyway, just catching up with all  the posts. Like FA says, it's just great to know you're all here, and enjoy reading all the posts. For you guys:

Comment by Nayr Namel on September 7, 2012 at 8:25pm
lol it would need to be more powerful than that lol for some reason "three cheers" reminds me of that old spungbob episode
 

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