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Comment by Grinning Cat on September 7, 2014 at 8:41pm

Carl, I'll add one more voice to those of us who may not have met you face to face, but care and are rooting for you! I'll heartily second this page full of comments.

Patricia, that church sign is a keeper. (I think it's a well-done photoshop.)

Plinius, many U.S. states let you declare your wish to donate organs on your driver's license. (I did.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 7, 2014 at 7:30pm

k. h., I used to do that, but "they" won't even let me donate blood anymore...age, diabetes, and the meds I'm on apparently make me ineligible.  Shameful.

Comment by k.h. ky on September 7, 2014 at 4:12pm
I've signed my drivers license to be an organ donar ever since ky made it an option many years ago.
I wish more people would. My daughter does the same thing.
Comment by booklover on September 7, 2014 at 12:38pm
I'm so glad you have a Specialist that you are comfortable with, Carl. It makes a big difference! Keep us posted, and know we are thinking of you, and rooting for you!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 7, 2014 at 11:51am

My many thanks to everyone here for all your supportive words and thoughts.  I'm quite moved.  I can't ask for more than to have a group of cheerleaders in my corner rooting for me from miles and miles away.  Thanks so much. 

Joan, I will be making a phone call this week to start the transplant process.  This is all new to me, and I don't know the timeframe or any procedures.  I'm just going with the flow and hoping it goes smoothly.  I have an excellent kidney specialist that I've been seeing who makes me feel very comfortable and confident. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 7, 2014 at 10:21am

Carl, so sorry to hear you have to go through this. I'm glad you have a positive and supportive family situation. You're very lucky for that.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 7, 2014 at 7:39am

Patricia, the message is pure gold. But I'm confused as to why it's on a church board. Who's responsible?

Ian, I was having trouble with the letters being cut off. Seems okay today.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2014 at 1:21am

Carl, a huge blow! You are young, you have good living habits, you have a strong constitution and a strong family. Yes, challenges. So, when does the program begin? 

We are here for you through good and bad. You know we walk this walk with you. 

 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 7, 2014 at 1:13am

Sorry to hear about your problem, Carl. Great that your family is rallying round to support and help. I hope that the dialysis goes smoothly. It can be rather time-consuming so if you haven't read "War and Peace" yet, now could be the time to start.

That sound like a really pleasant evening, Mindy. Glad you enjoyed it.

Yes, as a new column starts the problem seems to have gone and everything is readable.

I have a week's holiday now and decided not to go anywhere. I will make an attempt to give my flat a good, thorough clean and do the final training for a ½ marathon on the 21st of this month so there's enough to do.

Have a fine Sunday, all of you.

Comment by Plinius on September 7, 2014 at 1:00am

Quite some news, Carl, I imagine you had to try a few times before you could talk so easily about it. I hope many people wear a donor codicil over there. I always have my codicil with me, but I'm still careful when crossing the road. I'm very glad that that you feel good and have family in the neighbourhood! 

 

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