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Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 30, 2014 at 3:25pm

Mindy, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news.  I know you've mentioned recently that this day would be coming, but that doesn't make it any easier.  At least you know that Molly had a wonderful life as part of your household.

(and Patricia, that's a beautiful candle posting!)

Brent, it's always good hearing from you.  What great news that you're actually getting paid to care for your mother!  I had no idea that such a program existed. 

Comment by Brent Feeney on July 30, 2014 at 2:51pm

While I'm here *LOL*, wanted to give everyone an update on what's been going on with my mom.

As you may or may not know, I left a job I had at an area Walmart the first part of February after being told to take a transfer from stocking groceries to maintenance or be fired. Took the transfer, found I couldn't do it and turned in my resignation.

As some of you may also remember, I have been having a fairly rough year and a half; my dad died of Parkinson's complications in January 2013 and my mom had a stroke in October 2013. The damage was minimized fortunately but it has affected her some.

Not long after that, mom had to go into the hospital with a case of congestive heart failure. The good news is that she was able to get better and was released from the hospital a couple of days after she went in.

Right at the end of the Winter Olympics, my sister asked me if I wanted to come over and help take care of her so she and my other sister could both go back to work. I accepted and spend the week over with mom, my sisters and a nephew and niece over on the Illinois side of St. Louis, returning to my place in St. Louis city on the weekends. For the most part, it's worked out pretty well.

I brought up the idea of trying to get into a program where I could be paid to help take care of mom, and not long after, they had an interview with an state agency office, who then referred me to another company called Help at Home, a Chicago-based company with an office in Wood River, IL, not far from where mom lives in Glen Carbon (between Collinsville and Edwardsville, for those familiar with STL-area geography).

Submitted an application, passed all the checks, took three days of required training and now I'm being paid (at least part-time; she was approved for 17.5 hours/week) to help take care of mom. It's been a big help, no doubt, but I'd still help out even if I wasn't getting paid. At least being paid helps get the bills at home paid.

I do basic stuff for her; cook breakfast, get her lunch, clean out floors, make sure she gets her meds, help her out, generally make sure she has what she needs. It's pretty difficult at times but rewarding as well.

I hope everyone's doing well too. I should contribute more often to this group, I'll admit.

Comment by Patricia on July 30, 2014 at 2:46pm

Very sad & teary for your Mollys!

Comment by Brent Feeney on July 30, 2014 at 2:42pm

Mindy and Randy, sending you all good thoughts and wishes on the loss of your dogs. I'm a dog lover myself (though i do have plenty of room in my heart for cats too) and I hate to hear what's happened to your dogs.

Comment by booklover on July 30, 2014 at 8:44am

I heard on t.v. Joan that he punched her in the face, and it was caught on camera.  That is what caused her unconciousness.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2014 at 8:40am

Randy, your wrote, "The Ray Rice case is a good example."

I had to look up his name to figure out what you meant. 

February 15, 2014, domestic violence arrest, with an unconscious woman with Ray Rice coming out of an elevator. The article didn't say what caused the unconscious state, but by deduction from he arrest, I assume it was a domestic violence incident. 

March 28, 2014, marriage of Ray Rice and his girlfriend!  

Alarm bells, sirens ringing, whistles blowing. This is not the end of any domestic violence, it is merely the first of many incidents until the girlfriend/wife wakes up from her denial and delusions and realizes she is being treated as an object, a thing, a non-person. I do hope she and Rice get some powerful counseling ... not the mamby pamby kind of feel good therapy, but the deeply rooted exploration of the thinking minds of each one. 

Comment by booklover on July 30, 2014 at 8:13am

Thanks Spud and Chris!  Randy, that's wonderful you're going to the humane society today.  We can mourn the loss of our Mollys together.  I will go to the humane society too.  Not today, but soon, and I will save a cat instead of a dog.

Comment by Randall Smith on July 30, 2014 at 7:22am

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your notes of sympathy. Your words bring tears to my eyes. I am going to the humane society today to see what they have. 

Comment by Plinius on July 30, 2014 at 6:18am

Another Molly who leaves an empty place! I'm sorry for your loss!

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 30, 2014 at 5:26am

Mindy and Randy, I'm sorry for your loss.

 

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