Information

Hang With Friends

Location: Earth
Members: 837
Latest Activity: 1 hour ago

Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

A comment is a shout-out, which will get lost in a few days, because the comment wall is just a random stack.

Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

what boobs are good for

Started by dr kellie. Last reply by Bertold Brautigan 11 hours ago. 77 Replies

I discovered a brilliant new way to avoid  having xians ring my doorbell in attempt to share the good news with me.  Just now, I was in my kitchen, washing dishes and finding something to eat, when I looked out the large window above my sink.  Two…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Aug 6. 76 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Eat vegetables, Be happy

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Aug 1. 9 Replies

An association between the amount of fruit and vegetables people ate and their happiness? Yes indeed. People who ate 7 portions of fruits and/or vegetables a day were the happiest.…Continue

Tags: vegetables, fruit, diet, happiness

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 30. 59 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Forest Fire

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jul 21. 14 Replies

Continue

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Hang With Friends to add comments!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 9:20am

Wow.  Blast from the past.  I loved watching Jeff Smith (and his cute assistant Craig) on PBS.  I was a big fan in the '80s.  I only have his first cookbook, The Frugal Gourmet.  Some great recipes.  Too bad he got caught up in a tainted scandal.  He had a great personality.

I would LOVE your recipe...send away!!  

Once again, you just crack me up.  (pot in the orange juice.)  LOL

I can just imagine what you're like at a party! 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 8:13am

I heard THAT!  Cranberry juice is the only fruit juice I can tolerate, but I sometimes add orange juice to the pot when I make cranberry sauce. (Maybe I should add some pot to the orange juice...)

I have also thought of cranberry sorbet with an orange swirl, I just wish I could get B&J or Baskin Robbins interested.... 

Do you want the recipe that I have?  It's in one of the late Jeff Smith"s cookbooks (The Frugal Gourmet Cooks American)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 7:35am

Mmmmmm   Cranberry sorbet.  That would be wonderful.  I'm never without cranberry juice in the fridge.  Love the taste. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:32am

Steph and Tony, I don't have any parffait in the fridge, but I have some die-VOON passionfruit punch sherbet in the freezer. Better hurry, though, I only bought it yesterday, and the carton is already half empty.

PS: I have been trying for years to get some commercial company to make cranberry sorbet or sherbet for the winter holidays, and they keep ignoring me.  I have a recipe, but no Donvier machine....  But doesn't it sound perfect for the usual turkey (or ham) feast?

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:16am

@Idaho Spud: About the 100 lb bag of manure...It was very much a physical sensation when I suddenly realized the whole book had to be fiction. 

I was trying to find the answers to personal problems (I'd been told to "take my troubles to Jesus"), and had been struggling for more than 10 years with my inability to believe as whole-heartedly as the other people in my church seemed to, so I read the whole book, from beginning to end.  By the time I got halfway through Revelation, I was thinking, "This guy is tripping on acid!"  (I had NO idea at the time that diseased rye and other "recreational drugs" were widely available in the whole Mediterranean for centuries. I read about that much later in Colleen McCullough's "Masters of Rome" series.)

Anyroad, I thought back over other "miracle" stories, Jonah and the whale, the flood, Jesus raising an already decomposed man from the dead...I looked at the book in my hand and said out loud, "This is CRAP!"  I was appalled at myself for an instant, but I did feel as if I'd shed a heavy burden I'd been dragging around for years (I was in my mid 20s at the time). 

I had always felt that there was something wrong with me, that my problems (alcoholic father that I loved, for one thing) were my fault because I didn't believe enough, or something ....

I have always been fascinated with science, even though I lack the education, but at the time I was going through all this, all sorts of amazing scientific discoveries were making headlines, and I ate them up like mad.  They proved beyond a doubt that Genesis was just plain silly, and Darwin was right...I'd been struggling to keep my mouth shut about that in Sunday school for years. (I never did have a problem knowing that our ancestors were related to apes...I thought it was exciting.)

I wanted to know why "god" didn't tell "his chosen people" the truth about their origins, or about the shape of our planet and solar system, etc..  Woulda saved a lot of trouble.

Once I realized that the buybull was nothing but myths and lies, I stopped worrying about it, and got on with my real life. (My Dad went into rehab and sobered up, too.)  And nobody EVER asked me why I wasn't going to church any more.

I'm babbling...sorry.  It just is a long story because it took me so many years to get my head straight, and that final "This is CRAP!" was a surprising bolt out of the blue.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 7, 2012 at 11:37pm

Be true to yourself first! Indeed.

Comment by Derek Bly on September 7, 2012 at 11:29pm

Ruth, thank you for your comment.

I agree socializing is an important part of being human. But I came to realize the only reason I was attending the UUF was because i like the people . . . even though I wasn't on the same page about spirituality. In a way, I was pretending I was simply to hang out with them. I've let them know I still want to stay in touch, but I need to be true to myself and that means not attending their services anymore.

Comment by Steph S. on September 7, 2012 at 11:26pm
Yeah Ruth - I'm glad you got out of an abusive relationship early - you were so smart to see the signs. No one should take abuse of any kind. It is good to socialize - I agree. So, I am always here it seems - on the Nexus with all of you. So glad to have you!
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2012 at 11:18pm

Tony, lovely, evocative words and image. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2012 at 11:18pm

Ruth, thank you for telling your story and comments about socializing. You were wise, young. 

 

Members (837)

 
 
 

Support Atheist Nexus

Donate Today

Donate

 

Help Nexus When You Buy From Amazon

Amazon

AJY

 

© 2014   Atheist Nexus. All rights reserved. Admin: Richard Haynes.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service