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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 12, 2014 at 6:26pm

Sk8eycat - We missed your razor-sharp wit and wisdom. Great to have you back.

Comment by Plinius on October 12, 2014 at 1:23pm

You're not really lonely when we all think of you, Sk8eycat! Don't forget it!

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 12, 2014 at 12:49pm

Felaine, I know what you mean about not having access to mail. I am addicted to Atheist Nexus and my friends here. I am surprised you had your Mac Book in reserve. I love mine and find it does so much and with few crashes. Whatever is the problem, I hope you get it fixed quickly. Also hope your friend doesn't charge you a lot. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 12, 2014 at 12:19pm

Chris, your selfie of you and your aunt is so sweet. I like the look and feel of caring for others. It just makes me feel good. 

It is cold this morning, so I will stay inside until it warms up a bit and then take my lunch outside and do some more winterizing. Cary gathered pine needles for me this morning that I use around the roses. 
Did I tell you, I am spreading last year's composts and making room for this year's abundant supply. My back and legs and arms hurt. I take the tasks slowly, stopping often for a coffee or water break and even sneak in a nap or two or three. 

We had rain yesterday, however, I was able to fill the wheelbarrow three times and scatter that lovely black gold into the boxes. 

Randy, I have been writing a lot. Having the cold mornings, I stay inside longer. My computer keeps dropping the signal when outside, so I think up topics on which I want to write and then come inside with a head full of words to capture. I even call myself a writer, even though I have not published anything. Yet. 

Comment by sk8eycat on October 12, 2014 at 11:07am

PS: I think it was Anne Nicol Gaylor (Annie Laurie's mother, and co-founder of FFRF) who came up with "Nothing fails like prayer."  (I sometimes run it all together, and use it as a password...on very few web sites!)

Comment by sk8eycat on October 12, 2014 at 10:57am

Oh! It worked!  My Dell crashed BIG time 2 weeks ago, and Bill still can't get the hard drive to boot up.  So I've been struggling with the Mac Book' can't remember any of my passwords, plus no e-mail....just internet.

I've been so lonely, frustrated, and totally freaked out.

Mostly, I've missed you all.  Terribly!

I'm waiting to hear from Bill ("my" tech)...he has the Dell hard drive at his place, but he's going through worse sh*t than I am; his mother had heart surgery this past week, and HE has dialysis every Mon-Wed-Fri....

I just wanted to let you know I'm still here,, and I've missed you all so very much!

Love, Felaine

Comment by Randall Smith on October 12, 2014 at 8:12am

Regarding cruising the Danube. I called the cruise people (YMT) for details and found out single passengers like myself have to pay an additional $1500! They don't do "bunkmates", saying 2 weeks spent with someone you don't know and eventually will learn to despise is too risky to chance.

However(!), when I told my sister that, she said "I'll go"! We get along great, so here's crossing my fingers she'll follow up. She's notorious for changing her mind on things. I may have to send out an "all call" for one of you nice people to join me!

Comment by Randall Smith on October 11, 2014 at 8:09am

Hope you all noticed Daniel (Sentient) is back! Read his blog. Now it's confirmed--I plan on cruising the Danube next year!

Comment by Plinius on October 10, 2014 at 11:25am

Get better soon Deidre! I feel all right but I look like a dalmatian dog - the spots are red. Allergy, they say at the medical centre, but nobody knows what sort. I'm still lucky, it doesn't itch.

Comment by booklover on October 10, 2014 at 10:53am
Thanks, Deidre! One of my friends cancelled because she isn't feeling well.
I hope you feel better soon!
 

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