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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 2:46pm

Whining is OK  sk8eycat, it is the necessary first step in problem solving. It becomes dysfunctional when that is all one does about a problem. Sometimes whining is the only thing one can do, just don't expect it to change anything. 

I am sorry to learn Hairy Jerry is not springing back to normal activity. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 22, 2013 at 2:40pm

TFA: When I worked for JCPenney Advertising in the early 1980s, I was a "Research Associate." Glorified file clerk; we dug up information, photos, and mdse samples for photography for the Copy and Art departments.  Bottom of the totem pole, with no chance for advancement.  We did get stock shares after being there a year or two...and group medical insurance was $7.80 a month in those days...before HMOs.  It was actually a pretty good company to work for, except when the New York brass came to LA to check on us, and the buyers in another section of the building...the usual boring "meeting," which was nothing but a pep talk. I had the impression from their attitude that they thought we weren't to be trusted with sharp objects.

About Jerry...I haven't been able to get him to the vet yet...I ned to draw $$$ out of a CD first, and that has to be done in person, which means taking taxis since I quit driving more than a year ago.  The whole thing freaks me out so much that I can't sleep, pull myself together, and get it all done. Anything to do with money freaks me out. Makes me afraid to leave the house; I just want to crawl into a hole, and pull it in after me. 

I really need somebody to drag me out of here and drive me to two different banks, and then the vet.  All my friends that I could have called on for help have retired and moved out of the state. Southern California is just too expensive for retirees..unless they're filthy rich. (Can't sell the house now because we have a tiny reverse mortgage on it...wish we'd done it five or six years ago, but my sister would never stand for it, and she's co-owner according to mother's trust deed.)

Oh, no!  I'm whining again.  sorry.  I need to straighten up my act.  FAST!

Joan, I don't think my occasional "sk8eycaticisms" would fill even a small pamphlet, but thank you.  (Years and years ago, before email, I was exchanging notes with Marion Zimmer Bradley about a possible silly short story concerning an ice show that gets stranded on her fictional planet, Darkover.  Sort of a "coals to Newcastle" plot [on Darkover it only snows at night... in the summer].  Of course it was unpublishable, but she enjoyed communicating with her fans, and encouraged us to play in her "yard.")

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 1:39pm
Spud, your curmudgeonliness works for me.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 1:37pm

sk8eycat, You describe a style of writing that brings personalities alive for you. Your sk8eycaticisms are priceless.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 1:34pm

sk8eycat, yes academic writers write in a different language and unless exposed to it, I suppose it makes no sense. To me, it is my mother tongue ... sometimes ... it depends on who writes. I cannot make head or tail out of some, even as others seem to make sense out of the bunch of words piled together in sentences, paragraphs, chapters and books. 

My son and I had a disagreement yesterday about Newton's Laws of Motion and inertia. I went to the encyclopedia and could not make any sense out of it. I was more frustrated then ever. So, I went to Newton's Laws for Kids and I had evidence I was correct in my definition. Oh! I can understand such concepts when put simply. I am not bragging, just saying. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 22, 2013 at 1:18pm

Sk8eycat, how's Hairy Jerry doing?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 22, 2013 at 1:13pm

Madison Avenue is always trying to pretty-up our language.  You notice that no one sells used cars anymore.  They are all pre-owned vehicles.  And all the employees at retail stores are all 'associates' even though everyone is underpaid, under-insured and under-respected by the heads of the corporations. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 22, 2013 at 1:03pm

Oh, I love Dog and Friend.  The raccoon looks like a youngster...about half-grown. 

I used to have some friends who had a pet raccoon...named TrashCan; every time we would get together they would have another hilarious tale about his behavior.  (They built an enormous enclosure for him...took up half the back yard...but they also would bring him in the house on a leash.  Until the night he ate one of their parrots.  LOL)

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 22, 2013 at 1:03pm

WTF indeed.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 22, 2013 at 12:57pm

Spud, another word that has made my teeth itch ever since it was coined is "wellness."  The first time I saw it, I wondered "WTF is wrong with 'health'? Or 'healthy'?"  It's a simple word that everybody should be able to understand, so why invent a non-word that smells of Madison Ave. semi-cuteness?  It is now acceptable even in university publications, and it makes me want to scream.

 

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