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Comment by Idaho Spud on Saturday

I need someone to play with.  Yeah, that's the ticket!

Comment by Idaho Spud on Saturday

Regrettably, I'm like Lucy also.

Comment by booklover on Saturday
Thanks, Joan and Spud.
We had to laugh, because Lucy the cat seems to have gotten a little tubby. At our house she ran around a lot, and didn't constantly eat. At the apartment, there's not much room to run around, and there is always food in the bowl. Time to limit her food to the amount it says on the bag, and maybe find ways to play with her more so she gets more exercise. I could do with that advice too! Lol
Comment by Idaho Spud on Saturday

Mindy, sorry your daughter's depressed, but good to hear the support she has.

Comment by Joan Denoo on Saturday

Mindy, I am so very glad that our daughter has you and your family as back-up. She needs that and you provide just the right amount of support and letting go. A tough balancing problem. Her cat, her art classes, her expanding friends, all are positive things. 

Now, that means you need to take good care of yourself. The caregivers often don't realize how important their emotional health is to assist another. 

Depression is a real challenge. You seem on top of all the clues and remedies. Good job! 

Comment by booklover on Saturday
Thanks so much, Ian and Felaine! She is bi-polar. Never had a manic episode, she seems to just have depression. She does have a good support system. Besides me she has my husband (her dad), and her brother. Also my mom.
I will give her that hug from you, Ian!
I'm sorry you guys have had to deal with depression too. <3
Comment by sk8eycat on Saturday

Mindy, I have had what's called "clinical depression" off and on since I was 13.  I am now creeping up on 75, not exactly happy about my life, but I'm still here. With TWO cats.

I'm thinking encouraging thoughts for your daughter...things do get better, especially when you have interests in things outside your own self, and people to go to when the world gets to be too much. And it often does...but she has YOU.  That is fabulous.

Comment by Ian Mason on Saturday

Ah, good old faithful depression. You can rely on it turning up, often at the most inconvenient times. After decades of experience I know that it recedes again too, even though each bout often seems like the worst ever. It's good that your daughter has you to turn to (and a cat) while working it through and recharging for a new try at life. If it's all right with you, give her a hug from me.

Comment by Idaho Spud on Saturday

Randy, the comment box is still the same as always for me.

Comment by booklover on Saturday

Thanks Carl!  Yes, she loves her little apartment, and has met others who live in her bldg. (it's a big, old house converted into apartments.)  One girl is in her favorite art class. 

She loves doing art, loves that the Art Bldg. is about a 4 minute walk. She'll just always have these down-times.  I know having a cat keeps her happier.  She loves coming home to her "baby."  Animals are such good therapy and comfort.  And entertainment! :)

Spud, glad you like the quote. :)

 

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