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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2013 at 9:23am

Nope! Definitely not a wig! If a bald Joan results, a bald Joan is what the world gets. I wear it as a badge of honor. We have quite a few bald women wandering around Rosauers  grocery store or the hardware store, the only places I care to go. It doesn't take long for hair to grow back, and who knows, it may grow back to my favorite style, white and straight. 

Well, I am off to the garden to share my shedding hair with the birds. 

Comment by sk8eycat on June 10, 2013 at 8:42am

Joan, are you going to get a wig, or have you already done so? 

My mom was terribly upset about the hair-loss part of the treatment, and her oncologist's assistant suggested an Eva Gabor synthetic wig.  It was comfortable, washable, looked perfectly natural, and they're still in business!  Made all the difference to her morale (This was years before anybody came up with the idea of "teams." As I said before, she had to go through the chemo "discomfort" at home with just me to try and keep her from giving up.)

When her hair grew back in, it was as thick as ever, and was pure white (It was salt & pepper when it fell out).  She looked terriffic!

I was looking at the styles online last night, and I'm tempted to get one for myself, just for the fun of it...my hair is so thin, fine, and colorless that I can't do much with it but have it cut every 2 months..

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2013 at 1:18am

Chris, I feel fine. No more nausea or diarrhea, Creating the most delicious soups with vegetables and herbs, choking on my falling hair. Tomorrow is shave my head day with my cousins. 

Comment by Plinius on June 10, 2013 at 1:01am

Sorry to hear about your hair, Joan, but the white lining of the birds nests is lovely to think of. How are you feeling? And must you wait long before your treatment is finished?

Thanks for the holiday pictures and stories, Ian! I enjoyed them very much! 

Comment by Ian Mason on June 9, 2013 at 9:50pm

Be careful you don't get a sunburnt head, Joan. Good that you're recycling as you go.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 9, 2013 at 8:26pm

Sorry to hear about your hair loss, Joan.  I like the idea of you combing it outside.  At least the birds will put it to good use.  All life seems to work in continuous cycles.  Your loss is a gain for something else, and in time you'll have your silver crown back. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 9, 2013 at 8:12pm

My hair is coming out in big chunks! Sitting in my garden, i pull the comb through my hair, and great gobs of strands come away from my head and float to the groud. Birds chirp and dance around me as the hair hits the ground and they fly off with mouthfuls of my white hair. I have a feeling all the bird nests will be white this year!

Comment by Ian Mason on June 9, 2013 at 2:41pm

Lilie, you were on holiday, he was trying to scratch a living. 

A quote a remember from someones memoirs. A townie, he was fascinated by the fact that someone he met had been a ploughman with a horse-drawn plough. He asked what it was like. The ploughman replied: "how would you like to spend 10 hours a day looking at two bloody great horses' arses?"

Comment by Lillie on June 9, 2013 at 1:55pm

When I was exploring the Greek mountains many years ago, we had to move off the path to let a goat herd move through.  The shepherd looked at us as if we were from Mars.  I am sure we had a greater appreciation of his landscape than he did.

Comment by Loren Miller on June 9, 2013 at 12:58pm

To those who seem to think that Ronald Wilson Reagan wouldn't make it in today's republican party, Bill Maher has a bi-syllabic rebuttal: BULLSHIT!


 

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