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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 23, 2013 at 8:30pm

Thanks, Patricia, for the book reference. Good point aobut not being responsible to phantasms. Your bread looks tasty. :)

Wow, booklover. You are far more involved with family than I ever was. I hope your daughter thrives in her new job. Exactly what is a puppy-niece?

Richard C Brown, thanks for announcing your interest. That’s a friendly way to join our group.

Napoleon, thanks for you sex education contribution. I’ve read about female genital mutilation for years but never saw it. That’s gruesome.

Sk8eycat, I’m glad to hear that Pumpkin is blossoming as an only cat. Watching hummingbirds is always so much fun. I had no idea they were so territorial. Perhaps that instinct is because real flowers have limited nectar, compared to feeders. Can she watch the nest from her den window, and see the baby?

Comment by Steph S. on August 23, 2013 at 7:01pm


Melinda congrats on your daughters job. Way to go.

Your Pumpkin is a beautiful cat sk8eycat.

So glad to be back here.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 23, 2013 at 6:54pm

StEph!  Sorry about the typo.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 23, 2013 at 6:53pm

Stph, that little ORNJ kitty looks very much like my Pumpkin.  And he has come out of his shell a great deal now that Jerry has "left the building."  He has never been an Only Cat in all of his 14 years; I think he's enjoying it.

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Ruth, yes, I always see hummingbirds at the feeders when I stay at Sue's house. sometimes 2 or 3 will come from different directions, and then "scold" each other about who was first...even though the feeders each have 3 openings for group meals.

One pair comes back every spring to build (or refurbish) their nest in a camellia bush right outside her den window.  I have photos....

Those little birds know a good thing when they find it.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 23, 2013 at 6:44pm

Richard, WELCOME!

ENJOY!

Comment by Steph S. on August 23, 2013 at 6:37pm

Hi Richard - nice to have you here.

How is everyone. Weekend is here.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 22, 2013 at 9:02pm
Hi Richard, glad to see you on this site. I noticed you responded to my article on problems with the forests caused by climate change; a great concern of mine. This is a friendly and caring group. Managing life's challenges is a bit easier with the wise and sometimes entertaining comments that come through here. We all care about health, family, friends,and the planet.
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 22, 2013 at 8:56pm

Patricia, I really like PZ Meyers. He says a lot with few words. 

"Religious beliefs are lazy jokes with bad punch lines."

~ PZ Myers

Probulos, I. M. (2012-12-03). Over 365 Quotations for Atheists Agnostics and Secular Humanists (Quote Books) (Kindle Locations 297-298). I. M. Probuluos. Kindle Edition.

Comment by Richard C Brown on August 22, 2013 at 8:19pm

I just want to Hang Out for awhile.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 22, 2013 at 6:05pm

Patricia, I loved the article, but I don't know anybody to send it to.  I've been an open atheist for so long that all my "friends" who couldn't handle that vanished years ago.  99.9% of my friends are also atheists, or indifferent to religion but are afraid of the "A"-word.

I guess that's a project I could get into...getting rid of the undeserved, old Cold War baggage that a simple little word carries around.  Now, how do I start?

 

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