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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 21. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2013 at 1:07am

Brain/Mind disorders present terrible challenges. I am so sorry to learn of your friend, Mindy, and her struggles. Trying to help seems fruitless, especially when the whole body influences what the brain/mind does. "Snapping out of it" requires more than possibly can be handled by some. If she feels helpless, with no options, she is indeed, stuck. With all the different protocols she had must leave her in utter chaos, or a zombie. I don't know which is worse. 

Comment by Plinius on August 30, 2013 at 12:39am

Bi-polar can be bearable with the right treatment, but some sufferers I've seen also incurred two or three drug addictions, and that's another way of steadily getting worse. But ´snapping out of it´, what a crazy thing to demand!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 29, 2013 at 6:07pm

booklover...OMG! That's frightening!  Meds can't help?

Comment by sk8eycat on August 29, 2013 at 5:59pm

PS: IMO the best long train ride in the US is the Coast Starlight...Los Angeles to Seattle...or the reverse.  Beautiful, historical scenery once you get out of Los Angeles County.

I mentioned before that I love trains...my ideal vacation is just to get on a train and just RIDE!  I don't care where, and I really don't want to have to debark anywhere.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 29, 2013 at 5:54pm

A HIGH FIVE (and TEN) to y'all!

Cool High Five-ing Cat

Comment by sk8eycat on August 29, 2013 at 4:42pm

I have always loved trains!  When I was about 7 or 8 Mother and I went to Winslow to visit her sister and two brothers who had settled there after WW2. It was an overnight trip, and we were in an old-style Pullman car (pulled by a steam engine!). I loved the sounds, and the motion, and everything! When I was in Holiday we mostly traveled by rail, unless there was no connection to wherever we were going...then we got stuffed into buses. Ugh. Even now if I can't get somewhere by train, I won't go.  I don't mind flying but I HATE the paranoia that has saddled us with TSA and invasive searches.

Comment by Lillie on August 29, 2013 at 3:02pm

Did you notice, Ruth that the coud behind the jumping dolphin looks like a big fish with its mouth open?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 29, 2013 at 1:41pm

Greetings, All! I finally woke up at 7:30 AM, like a normal person.

I don’t quite have my head on straight yet. Maybe I'll adjust to this waking up in the morning life in a few days.

Thanks for the description of your niece’s wedding, Flying Atheist. And your cute pictorial introduction. When I was an undergraduate my friends were hooked on trains, particularly their sounds. They took me to sit by a railroad early in the morning just to listen to the train going by.

Booklover, I’m so glad your daughter is happy. Drag racing is’t my cup of tea either, but it’s good for couples to have separate interests too. I seldom un-join groups here, even if I haven’t contributed in a long time. Because as soon as I’d do that the next day I’d have some fascinating bit of news on THAT topic that I’d live to share.

Sk8eycat, your talent for dancing contrasting to other coordination skills fascinated me.  I hadn’t imagined such a discrepancy were possible. My physical skills usually hovered around the median, excepting for sewing (D-).

Thanks for your patience, Everyone.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 29, 2013 at 12:57am

Hi  Carl. Glad to hear that you've being enjoying yourself amid all the rush and long days. Allways good to read your posts. That's a fun "Instant cat kit"

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 28, 2013 at 11:57pm

Hello, Friends.

I'm a little

and trying to

I've been busy working a lot, it seems.  No more than usual, it just seems like a lot.  I've had some long days, though.  (Had a 15-hour long work day last week.) 

I did manage to spend five days in Sacramento in mid-August with lots of family members for my niece's wedding.  The wedding was in a wonderful setting.  The ceremony was held outside on the grass at a California wine vineyard and the reception was inside their barn building tasting room.  They served a scrumptious silky smooth Petite Sirah and an almond-infused sparkling wine.  Mmmmm

Sacramento also has a wonderful state railroad museum.  So much railroad history is there because Sacramento was the western terminus of the transcontinental railroad (or the beginning of the line for the Chinese laborers who worked going west before meeting up in Utah with the Irish from the east.)  Several years ago I had read Stephen Ambrose's book Nothing Like It In The World: the Men Who Built the Transcontinental Railroad, so the museum was a great visual supplement to that book and it's colorful characters.  We all have our differences across cultures and around the world, but throughout the years I've noticed one universal trait that is consistently clear:  everybody loves trains.  Riding them, watching them, real trains, model trains, all ages.  My parents and I had a nice relaxing ride aboard a 1920's coach railroad car.  

Patricia, the video of the orca's is phenomenal.  What a sight to see!  So many in one place.  Oh, and 'hello' to a fellow sax player. 

Mindy, I totally understand wanting to scale down and simplify.  I dislike clutter and being overwhelmed by possessions, although I do appreciate an interesting collection as a hobby.  I have my postcard collection and my Halloween decorations appear to magically be growing ten-fold.  (Must stay away from eBay.)   

Ian, I'm sorry to read about your family's medical issues, but I'm glad that you're relatively close enough to fly there to take care of business.  Dealing with loved ones who have deteriorating issues is difficult, but they are lucky to have you there to make important decisions on their behalf.  I wish you all well. 

Felaine, I so enjoy reading about your entertainment past and seeing your photos.  I can just imagine the many wild stories you have in your memory from your show days.  Believe me, I know.  When you get musicians, actors, theater performers, showbiz types all together, hilarity and questionable activities ensue.  

Sorry to be so long.  Time for bed now.  It's good catching up with all of you. 

 

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