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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat on Wednesday. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Patricia on Wednesday. 4 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Tuesday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 21. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 20. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

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Comment by booklover on September 11, 2013 at 8:43am

Comment by booklover on September 11, 2013 at 8:42am

Grinning Cat, the video is adorable!!! lol

Joan, I guess this couple who owns the restaurant just walk around everyday causing havoc.  The owner even told some crew who came to take pictures the wrong time the restaurant opened!  They just accuse people of things, make rules up on the spot, don't know just how things are run daily, etc.  It bothers me more than it bothers my daughter.  She likes her job and the staff.  She certainly isn't being singled-out.  I just know who they are in our city, and they think they are the upper-crust just because they own a lot of businesses here and are rich.  I just think people like that are jerks.  My daughter said each evening, when they leave, the staff just breathes a sigh of relief, and gets on with their jobs.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2013 at 3:21am

That monopoly cat video was made by Parker Bros. as a promotion to advertise the fact that the cat game board piece is a new addition to the game.  It won in a popular vote.  I thought it was a cute video.   

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2013 at 1:18am

Carl, thanks for the giffs and Monopoly cat. Clever. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2013 at 1:12am

Mindy, I hate what your daughter experiences and feel for her. False accusations, especially when so blatantly placing blame on her with no evidence, would really get my goat! There comes a time when she will look for work someplace else. If she has been accused twice for no reason, she is entitled to an apology and has the right to issue an ultimatum. She doesn't benefit by people not showing her respect.
This situation is what I call the "Oh Well ... !" syndrome. Receive an insult or put-down or discount one time and just shrug it off with an "Oh Well!" and she receives another insult ... and says, "Oh Well!", pretty soon her life becomes "Oh well!".
I can't think of a better way to become depressed and self-loathing.
I know, she wants a job and to become independent. That is a noble goal. What price does she have to pay to keep that job? Is it worth it to her?
A first step might be to discuss her reaction with her supervisor or boss and set some ground rules. To be accused without evidence and to not be trusted and supported by her co-worker, is an insult, in and of itself. It is up to them to prove her guilt, not her to prove her innocence.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2013 at 12:55am
Grinning Cat, splendid training that cat gave his/her owner. I wonder how long it took? I trained rats during my undergraduate work and I must say, those rats had me as well trained as this cat!
Comment by Grinning Cat on September 10, 2013 at 11:27pm

Also from lovemeow:

Not quite Pavlov's bell: "Cat Trains Human to Feed On Command", using a bell to request treats.

Comment by Lillie on September 10, 2013 at 10:26pm

Grandpawrent's cats are so cute.

Comment by booklover on September 10, 2013 at 8:43pm
Love the cats Carl and Patricia! It was almost 100 degrees here today! I went swimming at a friends house, and she had a few other ladies over. It was nice! My poor husband was totally wiped out after work. You can actually see the dried salt from sweating on his uniform. Ugh. My daughter's rich boss and his wife blame their employees for everything. A waitress left her purse out and open. My daughter is the hostess at their upper- end restaurant. First they accused my daughter of it being her purse, then asked her why she Let the waitress put her purse where it shouldn't have been. Also someone put a laptop on one of the tables. It left a scratch. They asked my daughter why she scratched the table. WHAT?!?! People are jerks! And she hasn't even been there a month yet! Her boss told not to worry, they accuse everybody of everything. My daughter prides herself on her honesty, and she was really insulted when they act like she's a liar. My husband told her that's just life, you've got to play the game. Well the game sucks!!!!!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2013 at 4:43pm

 

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