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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover 7 hours ago. 21 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Wednesday. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by booklover on November 16, 2013 at 8:09am

I saw that on FB too Loren!  I love Mark Twain.  Such a true saying!

Joan, I'm glad you had a good therapist.  My daughter did too, but the therapist left doing therapy to take a different kind of job. :(  My daughter is up early this a.m., going to meet a friend who is an art teacher, and they are going to the school where her friend teaches and hanging a bunch of art.  I'm glad she has something to get up and do, and hang-out with a friend she rarely sees.

  Cute cat Steph and thanks for the hugs as always my sweet friend! :)

Have a good weekend everyone!~ Mindy

Ha

Comment by Steph S. on November 15, 2013 at 9:40pm

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on November 15, 2013 at 9:14pm

Gods are for wimps


Comment by Steph S. on November 15, 2013 at 8:22pm

Mindy - yes virtual hugs to you and your daughter - I hope everything works out OK.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 15, 2013 at 8:12pm
Thanks Loren, Mark Twain does have a way with ideas!

Mindy, I wish your daughter had a therapist such as I at Cancer Care Northwest. She has some kind of insight that gets to the underlying issues of distress. Everyone I talk to at CCNW, staff and patients, marvels at her great skills. Thinking about you.
Comment by Loren Miller on November 15, 2013 at 8:02pm

Just saw the following on my wife's FaceBook page ... thought it was VERY apropos to what we are about:

Comment by booklover on November 15, 2013 at 7:06am

Thanks Everyone, I am lucky to have such wonderful friends!  She stayed-over at her best friends house last night.  I am not looking forward to today!  Carl, you actually aren't a TOTAL stranger from the internet to her, because I'm always telling my family about different things my best friends here say and do.  Now when I say something about one of you, sometimes they will say, "Oh, your friend from Chicago?", or "Oh, the one who lives in Texas?", etc. lol.

Joan, she is on 2 different meds, and is going to see a therapist on Monday.  She's tried MANY different meds, and they either don't work, or work for only a short time.  I'm lucky MY meds work!!!  I am very concerned about her depression though because she was depressed this week BEFORE the boyfriend and job loss! 

Virtual hugs and support are great!  I'm so glad we all have each other on here! <3

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 15, 2013 at 12:58am
Mindy, so very sorry to learn of your daughter's challenges. You are a great mom and provide the safety she needs, and we are here to provide you emotional support, even if we can only give virtual hugs and lots of encouragement. Be sure to take good care of yourself. You are the strong dock she needs as she figures out life' storms. The depression worries me, as I know it does you. With clinical depression, she may need Rx. And of course you already know that.
Comment by Plinius on November 15, 2013 at 12:33am

Poor Mindy's daughter! I'm glad she has got a good family to back her. Wish her well!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 14, 2013 at 11:00pm

Oh, man, Mindy.  Talk about being shat upon all at once.  I feel horrible just thinking about your daughter and what she's going through.  Like Sk8eycat said, I'm sorry I can't do more, but please let her know that this total stranger from an internet site wishes her well.  I know she's in good hands with you around. 

 

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