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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Eat vegetables, Be happy

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 7 hours ago. 8 Replies

An association between the amount of fruit and vegetables people ate and their happiness? Yes indeed. People who ate 7 portions of fruits and/or vegetables a day were the happiest.…Continue

Tags: vegetables, fruit, diet, happiness

Optical Illusions

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This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Forest Fire

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change.org

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Jul 16. 6 Replies

There's a new petition taking off on Change.org, and we think you might be…Continue

Saving Number 90 - From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 1. 9 Replies

Seth says himself that the following is a departure from the usual fare his YouTube channel features.  Personally, I think it's a positive and constructive move, because it demonstrates that no, we are NOT just about atheism.  We're also very much…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on June 17, 2013 at 12:18pm

;-D   Nobody can resist strawberry ice cream!

Comment by Steph S. on June 17, 2013 at 11:34am

Comment by sk8eycat on June 17, 2013 at 3:08am

Oh, WOW!  I wanna skate to THAT!

Thanks.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 17, 2013 at 2:42am

I was once on a TU course at a place that used this as wake-up music: Sibelius: Karelia Suite - Intermezzo. I love it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XtIw5AkUEsE

Comment by Plinius on June 17, 2013 at 1:24am

Thanks for the link, Joan! I often use these exercises and most of the time they work well. But even so I'm getting shorter all the time; I lost about 6 cm. And the exercise, the painkillers and a little pampering calmed down the nerve and I'm almost back to normal again!

That is good news that you get a grip on your well-being through diet!

Take care of yourself, Ian, while taking care of others! It's hard when there is no comfort except friendship. I'll think of you.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 16, 2013 at 11:31pm

Ian, thank you for the "Box of Sunshine;" I really needed it today for a lot of reasons.  

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So...I hope this cheers everyone up the way it did me when I saw it in the newspaper:

'Ride of the Valkyries' rouses Caltech students for finals

In a long-standing ritual, residents at one of Caltech's dorms wake to Wagner's score during their stressful finals season.  

 

Comment by Ian Mason on June 16, 2013 at 10:51pm

Patricia, that is REAL pain. I felt like that a couple of years ago when I had (thanks to bad dentistry) continually infected teeth/abcesses. I was ready to take a pair of pliers and pull the things out myself. Glad that life is better for you now.

It's not been Fathers' Day in Denmark but I don't hear from my daughter when it is (5th June) Too many years of being a terrible father when I drank.

The bad news keeps on coming: the daughter of some good friends has taken her own life. In her early 30s, she had suffered from schizophrenia since her early teens. In her good periods she was a happy, smiling, caring young woman but in the end the delusions and the voices of the increasingly long bad periods were too much. Will be visiting her parents this evening along with some others. I hope we can be of some use.

Comment by Patricia on June 16, 2013 at 10:05pm

It was a matter of 'them' deciding whether it was needed, & then I just had to 'hurry up & wait' my turn when the CT scan showed how bad it was. When it came to the point where I could not get off the floor, then I was classed as an 'emergency case' & got in within a week. Best thing I ever did even though it was a pretty grim operation. I could not continue on as I was because wheel chair would have been my only future, & I was ready to stab a knife in there myself to cut the damn nerve. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 16, 2013 at 9:53pm

Patricia, your experience sounds dreadful. Did you know you had the option to have surgery earlier? I can't even imagine being in so much pain for so long. 

Comment by Patricia on June 16, 2013 at 9:29pm

I did everything I could at home along with physio & acupuncture, but my disk was too far gone for anything to work. I had the lumbar laminectomy in 1998, & have been fine since. I do get a very sore back if I over-do or stand in one position for more than a short time, but that's just fine after the torture I had to live with for over 2 years. That 'white hot' screaming pain from my butt down to my foot was unbelievably agonizing, so the operation & the 2 year recovery were well worth it! I find a lot of the info seems to soft-pedal it some, because experiencing it is nothing like what comes across when watching/reading the articles.

 

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