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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller yesterday. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 10:18pm

Tasty sounding recipes Joan.  I've saved them to try.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 10:09pm

Steph, I like: "If atheism is a religion, then off is a TV channel."

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 10:08pm

Steph, Now, that pigeon photo is funny! 

Patricia and Spud, most prepared food is far too sweet for me as well. I make my own whipped cream with top grade, very fresh heavy cream, with just a sprinkle of turbinado sugar and a dollop of Nielsen-Massey Vanillas, Madagascar Bourbon Vanilla Bean Paste.
The ancient cranberry sauce recipe off the package with ground cranberries, oranges, and about half the sugar works for me. Toss in a handful of chopped roasted walnuts and you have ambrosia. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 10:01pm

That's the best response I've heard to that ridiculous religious accusation Steph.  

I must admit I was guilty of accusing atheists of that when I was in the brainwashed state.  It's such an incredibly dumb thing to say, on so many levels, that I'm now at a loss to why I was proud of thinking of and saying it.

Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 9:42pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 9:08pm

Many prepared foods are way too sweet for my taste also.  Perhaps I didn't like whipped cream because my mother made it too sweet.  Don't know why I liked Cool Whip.  I may hate it now.  It's probably been 30 years or more since I've tasted it.

Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 8:55pm

Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 8:53pm

Joan I am so happy for your daughter being able to find a way to fix the marriage she was in. Learning is always a good thing. I am glad they were able to leave the dogma of religion. So wonderful to hear your success story.

Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 8:27pm

Well my hair does not look quite like that when it is humid. But that is a bird - I thought it was funny.

I don't like sports either. I find it boring myself. I suppose many would disagree with me. Cool Whip - yummy.

Facebook I see as privacy invasion and lots of worry and loss of time doing more important things. The Nexus is such a better place to spend my time.

Comment by booklover on November 25, 2013 at 7:27pm
Hi Joseph! If I were in your shoes, I would just point out that since I'm an Atheist, I can't support her religious youth- group. Period. But this is me at 46 talking. I think a younger me would have been more accommodating. The older I get,the less bullshit I can tolerate. That's why I have fewer "in real life" friends.~ Mindy
 

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