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Comment by Patricia on August 25, 2013 at 5:49pm

I agree Sk8ey.....jumps don't impress me. I really enjoy beautiful smooth skating with great footwork, & synchronized groups gliding on ice as well. Such relaxing entertainment for me. I always wished I could ice skate & tried many times as a kid, but was too scared. I am a clumsy person, so being on ice was not my cup of tea.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:39pm

Patricia: I love Kurt Browning's version of "Singin' in the Rain" because it's such a wonderful tribute to Gene Kelley, AND my body can still feel some of the moves he does (I never could jump...too scared).  But that's the kind of skating I fell in love with when I first saw it on TV ....long, smooth edges, and fancy footwork.  I can't stand what competitive skating has evolved into the last 25 years...an effing jumping contest. Gah!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:32pm

I think the only people who enjoy DST are amateur golfers who like to get a game in after work.

It seems like no matter where I worked, I ended up facing east while driving to work in the morning, and west on the way home.  With the sun in my eyes in both directions.  There are NO sunglasses dark enough to cut the glare.

Does anybody else remember when ALL the railroads in the US ran on Standard Time all year...no matter where they were? It's TRUE.

You would think that the logical time to change clocks (if we have to do it at all) would be on the Equinoxes, but nohhhhh...they keep stretching DST at both ends so that people have to go to work and to school in the dark when the times first change.  IMO there is NO need for it.  (We had "Double DST" during WW2 when the aircraft and munitions plants ran 24/7...must have been awful.)

Comment by booklover on August 25, 2013 at 5:25pm

Hi Everyone!  My Mom and I had fun in Green Bay, but I'm glad to be home.  Glad you're back on here more Ruth!  It's my Sister's puppy, so I call her my puppy-niece.  I'll get caught-up here now. :)

Comment by Lillie on August 25, 2013 at 2:30pm

Love your rebellion, sk8eycat.  lol.  I also hate DST.  I have an internal clock that doesn't switch easily.  I am always so happy when it changes back in November.

Comment by Patricia on August 25, 2013 at 2:06pm

Saskatchewan doesn't change their time either & they do just fine with it. Personally, I wish ''they'd'' pick one & stay there!!!

Gene Kelly & Singin' In The Rain has been a long time favorite of mine! Thanks for that video....nice to see it again.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 1:37pm

I have NEVER understood why "they" bother with DST in the northern latitudes!  We rehearsed one summer in Minot ND, and it was daylight, or twilight till 11PM, and the local teens (yokels!) drove up and down the miniscule main street outside our hotel, with their car radios blaring, till midnight.  WE had to get up around 6AM to have breakfast and get ready for rehearsals at 8AM. 

Arizona is the ONLY state that doesn't "do" DST now, and I think they're wise.. I love it because I don't have to calculate what time it is there when I want to call my only remaining (and forever favorite) aunt in Winslow.

In the meantime, here's something that makes me feel wonderful every time I watch it... obviously I don't do it enough.

ENJOY, EVERYBODY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXtd7xq7URM

Comment by Patricia on August 25, 2013 at 1:19pm

Right with you Sk8ey!!!! I HATE heat & pouring sweat, & have always been a night person. Daylight is when I am the most tired & sleepy, & begin to ''liven'' up after about 9 p.m. Have tried many ways of changing it, to no avail, so had to accept my sleeping whenever I'm able, which is not at night. Our daylight in summer goes to nearly 11 p.m. as well. As a kid, getting up for school was torture as I had just gotten to sleep, & was a zombie all day.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 12:40pm

No apologies necessary, Ruth. I'm a "night person," myself, and I understand how addictive it can be sometimes.  I am also not fond of summer, it's either too hot and dry, or overcast and humid, and I've been having problems with hypoglycemia.  I HATE feeling sweaty (who doesn't?) 

I have a freezer full of good food, and I just haven't felt much like cooking...or eating... the last couple of weeks.

I did treat myself to a decent haircut (and many hugs and air-kisses) Thursday.  I love having Francisco fuss over me for a little while, and he gives a wonderful cool-water scalp massage that relaxes me completely, and relieves my almost constant headache for the rest of the day. 

The only problem I have with his salon is that most of the really good gossip is in Spanish, and I never managed to learn much even though I spent several months in Mexico City...50 years ago!

Anyroad, after I was feeling more like a human instead of a shaggy dog, I bought a 6-pack of A&W Rooty Beer and some vanilla ice cream, and as soon as I got home I built a giant root beer float (my fave!). HEAVEN!  I didn't even bother to buy sugar-free ingredients, or check my blood sugar after I drank the thing. 

Sometimes I just have to be "bad," and I feel so much better for it than I have in weeks.  In fact, I may run out to the pool, get naked, yell, "TITS TO THE WIND!"  And jump in.  If I do, you-all will hear about it.

[giggle]

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 25, 2013 at 9:34am

Sorry to hear about your PC, Ian. It's so frustrating to lose everything.

I've been an irregular member lately because I've been dealing with seasonal affective disorder. Yes, in the middle of Summer. For a month I'd been sleeping 11 hours, sometimes longer. It finally dawned on me that I'm not getting enough sunlight because I was going to bed at 2 or 3 AM. It's so easy to watch TV till midnight and then fall into the computer. Sleeping through most of the daylight turned into a viscous cycle.

In an effort to wrench my sleep cycle back to normal, some days I don't even get the computer turned on. I'm sitting in my sunroom now, as soon as I wake up, instead of heading for the computer as I used to do. It's beginning to work. Yesterday I did the gym routine I used to do ever so long ago, instead of the shortened version. Last night I only slept 9 hours 40 minutes. I have a way to go till my new day/night schedule is settled. I apologize for neglecting you so much.

 

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