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Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Joan Denoo yesterday. 3 Replies

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

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Granddaughters

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 7, 2013 at 9:57pm

Joan, keep posting about anything you want. AN would shrivel up very quickly if the only topic anyone was ever invited to discuss was atheism. We’re multidimensional people who are atheists, not atheist robots. I personally value discussing problems, as mature companionship. Honeymoon relationships, where conflict is suppressed rather than discussed, are boring. How else can we learn from one another?

My walker is blue and has three wheels, Patricia. Don’t need it around the house or to go grocery shopping, but like it for longer forays. It looks something like this stock picture.

Booklover, unfriending seemed reasonable to me.

Comment by booklover on November 7, 2013 at 6:05pm

Much appreciated Patricia! :)

Comment by booklover on November 7, 2013 at 5:42pm

Glad you all enjoyed the Facebook post!  It isn't anybody I know, it was on one of the FB pages I "liked."

Patricia, thank you for re-posting that for Joan!  For some reason Joan's computer and mine aren't compatible! I don't know enough about computers to send it any other way.

So I took all of my sister's friends and/or family off my FB.  She and I don't agree on a lot of things, and if she wants to post back and forth with them fine, but I don't need my blood-pressure raised, and she got mad about her friend and I arguing.  So I don't know if she and I are in good-standing or not, but I'll just let it go until she acts like everything is fine again.  She's still playing our online games of Ruzzle and Words with Friends with me.  I did write a status on FB about how people can be religious or Republican, and I will be friends with them, but NOT if they use either to promote hate.  Hate against the LGBTQ community, etc.  I had 7 people agree with me, and I am only friends with fewer than 25 people, and some haven't gotten online yet today, so that's pretty good.

Yay, tomorrow is Friday!

Comment by Steph S. on November 7, 2013 at 5:33pm

Comment by Steph S. on November 7, 2013 at 5:32pm

Mindy love the facebook post.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2013 at 5:21pm

Patricia, thanks for reposting Mindy's comment. It is better than I even dreamed! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2013 at 3:31pm
Mindy, for some reason, I did not get your "Here's a great reply from someone on Facebook. :)"
I am so curious, I have to go get one of those cupcakes Carl suggested.
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2013 at 3:27pm
Thanks for the feedback. I welcome any dissenting positions; All things in balance. I do agree that I need to write about options and goals because there are many options ... mostly that do not align with current religious or political values.
Comment by Ian Mason on November 7, 2013 at 2:44pm

Open to all subjects, Joan. That's what friends are for. Glad to hear that you're doing well.

Purple is a great colour for a walker. Like it!

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 7, 2013 at 11:33am

Mindy, good Facebook comment.

FA, I'm saving the eat a cupcake advice.  I need the reminder often.

 

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