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Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Joan Denoo 12 hours ago. 3 Replies

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Granddaughters

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I've got three grandsons and I love them to death, but my youngest son and his wife had a baby girl in January and I haven't  right since. Granddaughter has me wrapped up like my grandsons never did. What is it about granddaughters? Her name is…Continue

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Comment by booklover on November 24, 2013 at 10:57am

It's sunny and cold here.  I have no voice!  Chest cold.  I think my husband is enjoying my not-talking. ;)

My dog is crying because she sees my husband outside doing yard-work, and she can't go out front.  Daughter is coming home today from visiting her friend. Tomorrow she sees her therapist in the a.m., and has a job interview in the afternoon. My son has to talk to the boss in the engineering dept. tomorrow and decide if it's a good fit for him.  The thing is, he is not good in math, but he can teach himself computer programs easily.  So if they are expecting him to get an engineering degree, no way.  If they are willing to just let him learn as he goes, he's fine!  They will make the decision together.  It's a VERY nice, family-owned company.  Very laid-back. Whatever he chooses, he likes it there, and that's important.

I'm staying in all day again today.  GO BEARS!!!!! :)

Comment by Steph S. on November 24, 2013 at 10:30am

Good thing you got away from Facebook. The Nexus site is so much better. I hope everyone is having a good day. IT is rainy and cold here today.

Comment by booklover on November 24, 2013 at 9:05am

When I was on Facebook, if I put anything cute or funny up, I got lots of "likes."  If I put anything Atheist up, NO likes.  Anything Liberal, maybe 1 like.  I have to say I didn't keep many friends though, because I HAVE to argue when people put super right-wing stuff up, and religious crap.  It just raised my blood-pressure for no reason.  I don't have to be on there. :)

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 23, 2013 at 6:32pm

Ruth, thanks for the explanation of "like".  Someone said that it was connected to facebook, so I was concerned, even though I never found any of my Nexus likes on facebook.  Your explanation reduces my concern even more.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 23, 2013 at 5:26pm

The "like" button does two things. It tells everyone you liked that, in the Latest Activity and adds to the like count for that thing. If you want to go back to it later, a shortcut is stored under "Likes" on your profile page. Well, also someone could look at your likes from your page to get an idea of your preferences.

Comment by Steph S. on November 23, 2013 at 5:15pm

Love the cats with books and tea cup. Enjoy the posts here.

Patricia I love owls too and enjoy that GIF.

Yes, Mindy we are real friends here and support you. Always thinking about you and wish you the best.

My thoughts are with everyone here.

Comment by Steph S. on November 23, 2013 at 5:12pm

Comment by booklover on November 23, 2013 at 2:40pm

Patricia, that gif is Wonderful!!!  I love owls, and it's so cool to see it pass between the trees! :)

Comment by booklover on November 23, 2013 at 8:29am

LOVE the cat pictures with books and teacups!  :)  What an awesome support system here.  When one of us has something bad going on, there is support.  When one of us has something good going on, everyone is happy for that person.  Real Friends.

Felaine, thanks SO much for sharing your personal experience.  It helps so much.

Carl, you are such a sweetheart.  Thank you for the compliments.  There is NOTHING more important to me than my children.  You are the best!

Patricia, that's great 2 of your kids were able to buy homes!

Chris, Joan, Grinning Cat, Steph~ :)

Have a great weekend all!~ Love, Mindy

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 23, 2013 at 2:43am

Just got back in town and reading what I missed. 

Mindy, as horrible as it is to have your daughter come to you in tears, the fact that she feels comfortable enough to emotionally express herself to you says so much about you personally.  In a different scenario she might choose to shut you out and not communicate at all, which I know would be even worse for both of you.  But she hasn't done that.  She trusts you.  You are there when she needs you.  You strongly support her both on good days and bad days.   You're a wonderful mother, Mindy.  You have a very special, close-knit family and your daughter benefits from such a solid and trusting foundation.  I do wish her well.  Hopefully in the near future she will find the right combination of workable tools to minimize and combat these issues.  And great news from your son!  You must all be very proud.  

Sk8eycat, thanks for sharing your very personal details.  Understanding and being aware of others' experiences helps everybody.  I have great admiration for you as well and I always look forward to reading your posts.      

 

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