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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz on Thursday. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 20, 2014 at 8:37pm

Carl, lovely music and images to start spring! We have definitely had a change in weather ... I hope it holds for a while.

I have never heard of Justin Bieber. I guess I live a sheltered life. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 20, 2014 at 2:40pm

Nice music Carl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 20, 2014 at 2:00pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 20, 2014 at 1:36pm

I'm sure glad Spring is officially here.  Even if it doesn't feel like it, I know that better days are on the way.  It's been an excruciatingly long and hard winter.  Yes, happy first day of Spring, indeed!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 20, 2014 at 2:34am

Well...JB wouldn't be so noticeable here.  Just another permanent adolescent among thousands of others. 

I wonder what would happen if he magically appeared in a fundamentalist Muslim country....naked.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 20, 2014 at 2:07am

Sk8eycat, perhaps you can make a deal with the Canadian government.  You move to Canada and Justin Bieber stays in Los Angeles (and can't be allowed to travel outside of L.A. county.) 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 20, 2014 at 1:42am

You mean, SHE moves out and I stay here?  NO WAY!  I couldn't do that; we moved here when she was an infant, and has never lived anywhere else.  I've had apartments (moved back in when I was out of work, broke, and our parents health was failing...and they needed a driver), PLUS I spent almost 5 years touring the US.  I've been around, Grace hasn't...she's never even had any kind of work outside the home...she's an Aspie.  No diagnosis but her behavior since infancy is typical of mild autism, or Asperger's syndrome.

Actually she has brought up the idea of moving into an assisted living-type building, although neither of us quite needs that much help. Yet.  And I don't know if such places accept pets.  We each have a cat...Freddie has become her personal buddy, and Pumpkin is mine, although he spends time with her, too.

The unused bedroom that I'd like to fill up is the master bedroom; I'd even accept a gay couple, if they're not too noisy about certain activities. 

Tee-hee!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 20, 2014 at 12:48am

Okay...the Sr.s apartment buildings I've checked out so far all have the same hairy-scary feature...3-level underground parking garages  So when a major quake happens what few "ground floor" apartments exist (most of the laundry and community rooms take up 75% of the ground floor space) are likely to fall into the parking garage, with 3 or 4  (or more) floors full of people on top of them.

NOT good.

The absodamnlutely safest type of building is a medium size one-story wood frame house...like mine.  We have an extra bedroom that I wish we could rent out, but it's against the local zoning laws to do that....the only other alternative is to find a rommie who will share the upkeep and utility expenses. 

How do a couple of elderly sisters find a compatible roommate? Advertize?  (I wouldn't trust something like CraigsList any farther than I could throw a roomful of Craigs.)  A younger gay man with a wicked sense of humor (atheist, of course...one JW in this house is all I can stand) would be ideal, and fun, and we could add him to our Living Trust so he could inherit the house when we're gone.  IF he'd want it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 19, 2014 at 10:29pm

Mindy, I can understand your desire to keep the house in the family. My family has been like that. We keep places for generations. It is sweet to go back walk through the rooms of one's childhood. To live in a home in which one grew up would have a certain sense of continuity to it. It is one option. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 19, 2014 at 10:27pm

Felaine, several of my friends very happily left their homes to move into seniors-only apartment buildings. They are difficult to get into, and one has to plan a couple years ahead. None of them regretted their decision to sell and move. Also, living in earthquake territory, as you so, I would surely not want to live any higher than ground floor. 

My cousin and his wife were in Northridge and in the dark of night their stairwell fell and when they scrambled, they fell through the hole in the floor. He is a big, husky, farm-raised man and he described his terror as he was falling after being shaken out of bed. 

 

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