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Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 4:23pm

Joseph, I'm more hardcore than you and would tell her that I'm sorry, but I'm certain religion does a lot more harm than good, so I can't support her.  That's basically what I've told my family.

Comment by Joseph Corder on November 25, 2013 at 4:10pm

Hey guys,  I have a problem.  I have been talking to an old girlfriend from 33 yrs. ago.  She is nice but she is a jesus freak but doesn't talk to me about it (she knows how I feel)  She runs a youth group and the other day she asked me to like and follow them.  It is helping kids but with a jesus component.  She has a list of things that she thinks are wrong with the kids today.  One is that the average kid in her area spends about 1 hour a week (this is to long for me!).  I find myself not wanting to do what she asked me to do because of the religious component!  I hate not supporting her youth group, but I can't do it with the religious slant!!  I surprised myself that I am that hardcore and its scary!  What would you guys do?  I have found a way to feel comfortable if asked about religion.  I just tell them that I DO NOT BELIEVE IN ANYTHING SUPERNATURAL.  Is this bitching out?  I don't want to hurt any feelings, so I ignore her invitations to follow her group.  I Need Help and this is the only place that I feel comfortable!!  What would you do?

Comment by booklover on November 25, 2013 at 3:39pm
Joan, I love that "Sorry I called you stupid, I thought you already knew" lol! I did put that on Facebook a while ago, no one " liked " it! I think the difference between you and I on Facebook is that I don't have a story to tell because I was raised without religion. So it's just me calling people stupid, although it's just more like me pointing out how ridiculous religion is, then they get mad. I also don't like people anymore. LOL. My daughter says to just post here on AN where the people I REALLY like are, and who accept me and my opinions. And my blood-pressure never goes up on here! Quite the opposite!
Your son-in-law sounds like an awesome person!!
I am also in the give me my books, animals, etc. group. I want coffee too though! :)
We are having breakfast-for-dinner tonight. I can't wait until my family comes home so I can find out what my son decided about his job, and if my daughter got the job!
Comment by Patricia on November 25, 2013 at 2:43pm

Joan, another of mine is..." I don't follow orders," but of course a medic's orders is a different kettle of fish.

I find Google is getting a little invasive so I got rid of the G+ as well, Idaho.

I am also checking out the macbooks for my next computer as windows is starting to drive me nuts.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:25pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:03pm

Spud, I like Facebook because new information constantly arrives on my major interests, politics, economics and religion. I simply block anyone or thing in which I am not interested.

I want my story out there because I want people to understand family violence. Not being seen, and people having so many myths about it, I want rich/poor, educated/uneducated, dominant/submissives to know the harm that comes from socialized behaviors, and I want victims to know they don't have to be victims.

It seems even some brutes read my stuff and some get violent with me and others ask me questions. My skin is so tough, most bad stuff just bounces off and makes me more determined to tell my story!  

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 1:54pm

I think I will close my G+ page.  I never use it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 1:52pm

I've not had any bad comments on my facebook page, but have been thinking of closing it before it happens.  I don't have any personal things on it, and only keep it so I can see what a Private Salt Lake City ex-mormon group is doing.

I'm still thinking about it, but at the first comment I don't like, it will be history.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 1:51pm

Patricia, you and I must be twins. "gimme my reading, music, pets, & leave me the hell alone, thanks" is my theme in many ways. "Don't tell me what to do" fits just a little better for me. 

Love your photo of the starfish. 

Steph: your kitty and bird look so cute. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 1:45pm

Mindy, I completely understand giving up on Facebook. Larry, my son-in-law, plans to set up a social network just for the family. Glad it can be done; I don't know how to do it. 

Larry has some real health problems. He had polio as a child and his legs were permanently deformed. As happens with that dreadful disease, the body has long-range consequences. He is going to have to have both ankle bones fused. I can't even imagine what that will do to his already fragile balance. 

My mother had to have the small toes of both feet amputated and the other toes wired together. It was the result of wearing those terrible narrow-toed shoes. She was never able to regain her balance. Those two littlest toes made a big difference. I wonder what fused ankles will do? 

Larry is a wonderful man, full of enthusiasm, a great encourager of others. When others complain about life being hard they should see how Larry can do more than most men with normal skeletons.

 

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