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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Comment by Patricia 21 hours ago

Aurora Borealis caused by sunstorm....

Comment by Patricia yesterday

Last chosen here too Carl. Many comments about ''only worth looking at from the neck down'', etc.

Comment by sk8eycat yesterday

What'd I DO?  (I've always loved Ella...and about 25 years ago I wrote a take-off on this song about my boss at the time.  Called it "You're the Pitz."  The guy was a brainless a##hat.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist yesterday

Sk8eycat, you're tops in my book. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist yesterday

Chris, what a sad little poem.  Yes, the awkwardness of not being wanted by your peers. 

Comment by Plinius yesterday

Thanks for your story, Felaine! My hat is off to you!

Getting picked for school sports reminds me of a wonderful poem, Carl. I wonder how many people remember the feeling.

 

 

Tich Miller wore glasses
with elastoplast-pink frames
and had one foot three sizes larger than the other.

When they picked teams for outdoor games
she and I were always the last two
left standing by the wire-mesh fence.

We avoided one another’s eyes,
stooping, perhaps, to re-tie a shoelace,
or affecting interest in the flight

of some fortunate bird, and pretended
not to hear the urgent conference:
‘Have Tubby!’ ‘No, no, have Tich!’

Usually they chose me, the lesser dud,
and she lolloped, unselected,
to the back of the other team.

At eleven we went to different schools.
In time I learned to get my own back,
sneering at hockey-players who couldn’t spell.

Tich died when she was twelve.



Wendy Cope

Comment by Ian Mason yesterday

There's an old saying, Felaine, that "discretion is the better part of valour" i.e. don't try to fight battles you can't win. Getting away from problems can be the wisest course to take, so your choice was the best for you. Be proud of all you have achieved through the years.

Comment by booklover yesterday
I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, Felaine! You were right to do what you needed to for you!
I had a good childhood except for a jerk stepfather ( my real father could never take care of even himself his whole life. We never saw him.) My Mom wanted a husband so she could stay home to raise us, and he wanted an instant family, because his 1st wife left him, and took the kids. My Mom was married to him from the time I was 5, until I turned 17. He never hit us, my mom would never have put up with that for one second. He yelled a lot though. You never knew when he would get mad about something. When they got divorced, my sister and I never wanted to see him again. Sad, there was just no connection there. I had a wonderful mom and sister, 2 sets of adoring grandparents we saw all the time, and numerous other relatives. I always felt loved and special. I know others had it worse than a yelling stepdad.
Comment by Joan Denoo yesterday

Felaine, I agree totally with Mindy, you are a cool person and a person worthy of respect. You certainly have had challenges in your life, things over which you had no control. I am so glad I guessed incorrectly about your father being controlling. I sounds like your parents had a very healthy relationship. I wonder what happened? I guess you will never know.

Your skating and the discipline it required to accomplish all that you did is strong evidence of your fine character.   

Comment by sk8eycat yesterday

Mindy, I honestly don't think my childhood was any worse than that of any one else I knew...we all had problems of one kind or another.  I'm kind of ashamed that I tended to run away from things I couldn't deal with any other way, but I survived, so I guess I did the right thing.  For myself.

At least I didn't "have to" get married at 17....I knew too many girls who did ....

 

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