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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith yesterday. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 28, 2014 at 7:40am

GC - you reminded me of Woody Allen's crack that if there is a god, he must be an underachiever.

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2014 at 7:14am

It's our BS-detector, Randall.  "innocent" also irritates me - should I be overjoyed when someone dies who is not innocent? Innocent of what?

Comment by Randall Smith on August 28, 2014 at 6:55am

When I read or hear about "innocent" people being killed (or whatever), I often transfer my sad feelings to a rationalized expression of "See--what kind of god would allow such a thing to happen? Ha. Showed you." I'm not proud of feeling that way, but it helps deaden the sadness.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 1:25am

Here's another fun song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9bMi4s_yOE&list=PL4F31A2E482D6...

I found a whole slew of Atheist songs on YouTube...don't know why I never looked for any till tonight.
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Grinner, I am SO Mac illiterate that I don't know how to do anything but look at my own ugly face on the screen, and click icons just to see what happens. 

I NEED to learn to use that Mac because this Dell is 10 years old, slowing down, and crashes or freezes at least 4 times a day.  I actually do two small jobs via the net...I don't get paid for them, but it's something to keep me busy for one week a month.

I'm effing BORED!
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When everyone was talking about swearing, I realized that I don't "swear" at all, I just cuss (use dirty words).  I'll say "ohhhhhh sh*t" and the F-word occasionally, but my hyper-religious sister is the one who says "godammit" when she drops a spoon or something equally trivial. I think Homer Simpson is her role model since she has Asperger's Syndrome, and doesn't really understand how real humans behave.  She will be 70 in November....

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 12:57am

I found a couple of shortened versions of Dan Barker's atheist songs on YouTube (Hallelujah!  *snicker*)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIoXPlGwois

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 12:49am

The good but quite limited god Harold Kushner posits in When Bad Things Happen to Good People, who's just as outraged as we are over tragedies and injustice, makes much more sense than the traditional version. (Then again, people here would agree that any god is imaginary and unnecessary.)

Kushner, a rabbi who had a traditional view of God, was moved to rethink his beliefs when his son died of progeria, literally dying of old age in his teens. He absolutely rejects "mysterious plans" bullshit as profoundly immoral.

(The "moral supporter" sort of god Kushner came to believe in reminds me somewhat of the idea of "avatars" I read about somewhere else: characters -- like Lady Liberty, Santa Claus, or the Geico gecko -- who exist only in our cultural consciousness, but who, unlike those examples, speak and advocate for the well-being of all of humanity, and know they're fictional.)

When Bad Things Happen to Good People might be worth recommending to all those Facebook theists!

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 12:46am

Felaine, I too love that password, and how your sister will have to use it! (Just make sure she doesn't figure out how to change it! Or... does MacOS have a feature similar to that of Windows, where it can create a special "password reset disk" using a flash drive, that'll let you log in without the possibly changed password?)

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2014 at 12:36am

I love that password! And your intention!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 12:30am

Can you post, "Nothing Fails Like Prayer," and get away with it? That is a quote by Anne Nicol Gaylor, co-founder of the Freedom From Religion Foundation. 

I made it the log-on password for the MacBook that I still haven't learned to use.  I want to see my JW sister's face when I tell her that's what she has to type to turn the thing on.  LMAO

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2014 at 6:50pm

IMHO, there is no such thing as an "illegitimate" baby or child, it puts a brand on the child and for no good reason. There are some single women who make excellent parents and build strong family ties. There are some dreadful married parents that neglect, spoil, or abuse their children and create dysfunctional families. The child has nothing to do with it. 

The notion of legitimacy has to do with rights of inheritance. Yes! the old money question pops up in the historical records of legitimacy. Older laws punished both the parents and the child/ren, based on "morality" issues. After 1920, it became a way of deciding if a child was entitled to any inheritance. 

Current laws have more to do with who will contribute to the monetary support of a child. 

"The first major breakthrough for children born to unwed parents came when the Legitimacy Act of 1926 was passed. This granted legitimacy to all children who had parents that married at a later date, as long as the parents would have been legally able to marry at the time of the child's conception. This law was to be updated three more times. The final version of it was passed in 1987 and abolished all remaining laws that favored legitimate children over illegitimate ones, except concerning royal hereditary titles or citizenship status."

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