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Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 12:57am

I found a couple of shortened versions of Dan Barker's atheist songs on YouTube (Hallelujah!  *snicker*)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIoXPlGwois

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 12:49am

The good but quite limited god Harold Kushner posits in When Bad Things Happen to Good People, who's just as outraged as we are over tragedies and injustice, makes much more sense than the traditional version. (Then again, people here would agree that any god is imaginary and unnecessary.)

Kushner, a rabbi who had a traditional view of God, was moved to rethink his beliefs when his son died of progeria, literally dying of old age in his teens. He absolutely rejects "mysterious plans" bullshit as profoundly immoral.

(The "moral supporter" sort of god Kushner came to believe in reminds me somewhat of the idea of "avatars" I read about somewhere else: characters -- like Lady Liberty, Santa Claus, or the Geico gecko -- who exist only in our cultural consciousness, but who, unlike those examples, speak and advocate for the well-being of all of humanity, and know they're fictional.)

When Bad Things Happen to Good People might be worth recommending to all those Facebook theists!

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 12:46am

Felaine, I too love that password, and how your sister will have to use it! (Just make sure she doesn't figure out how to change it! Or... does MacOS have a feature similar to that of Windows, where it can create a special "password reset disk" using a flash drive, that'll let you log in without the possibly changed password?)

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2014 at 12:36am

I love that password! And your intention!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 12:30am

Can you post, "Nothing Fails Like Prayer," and get away with it? That is a quote by Anne Nicol Gaylor, co-founder of the Freedom From Religion Foundation. 

I made it the log-on password for the MacBook that I still haven't learned to use.  I want to see my JW sister's face when I tell her that's what she has to type to turn the thing on.  LMAO

Comment by booklover on August 27, 2014 at 11:48pm
EXACTLY, Patricia! Fucking "prayer warriors," and "god is good, all the time, all the time, god is good." What a load of crap!!!!!!!!
Comment by Patricia on August 27, 2014 at 11:43pm

I think a lot of us are outraged by this bs!!!

Seeing babies/kids be put through chemo because gawd chose to give he/she cancer to begin with, & all the bloody praying that goes on after diagnosis to have the baby die anyway, is just soooooo disgusting. That's an awful lot of suffering for the kid as well as the parents, to lose to some egotistical plan!!!! Gimme a break!!!

Comment by booklover on August 27, 2014 at 11:31pm
A woman that went to my high school (5 years behind me) died tonight. So Dhe was 42. A lawyer, and the head of all things to do with Alumni from our school. Her car had been hit by 3 robbers, running from the police. They are all alive. Facebook exploded the other day when she was in the hospital with all the "prayer warriors" and "prayer chains" from our old school. Blah blah blah. It did NOTHING, of course. Now Facebook is filled with, god gained another angel tonight, and "she is in a better place," etc. even one of my old teachers was on there with that bullshit.
Do they not see how all that begging did NOTHING?!?! She died anyway! Now they ignore that, and start in on the "god had other plans for her" shit. WHY CANT THEY SEE THAT'S CRAZY!!!!!! They begged, their god said NO. I almost can't stand the idiocy! I wish I had the nerve to say it on there and not care that anyone who was on there knows I think that's insane.
I just messaged my sister and said see? That's why I can see there is no " god" and praying does jack- shit. She just put XO and a heart. She won't argue or debate me. She was raised by an Atheist just like Si was.
Sorry for rambling. I didn't know the woman, but from what I had read, she was a really neat person.
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2014 at 6:50pm

IMHO, there is no such thing as an "illegitimate" baby or child, it puts a brand on the child and for no good reason. There are some single women who make excellent parents and build strong family ties. There are some dreadful married parents that neglect, spoil, or abuse their children and create dysfunctional families. The child has nothing to do with it. 

The notion of legitimacy has to do with rights of inheritance. Yes! the old money question pops up in the historical records of legitimacy. Older laws punished both the parents and the child/ren, based on "morality" issues. After 1920, it became a way of deciding if a child was entitled to any inheritance. 

Current laws have more to do with who will contribute to the monetary support of a child. 

"The first major breakthrough for children born to unwed parents came when the Legitimacy Act of 1926 was passed. This granted legitimacy to all children who had parents that married at a later date, as long as the parents would have been legally able to marry at the time of the child's conception. This law was to be updated three more times. The final version of it was passed in 1987 and abolished all remaining laws that favored legitimate children over illegitimate ones, except concerning royal hereditary titles or citizenship status."

Lots more information available:

History Legitimacy Overview

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 27, 2014 at 3:19pm

k.h., that is funny! And I'm confident that your father's a human, not an android! (Looks like an autocowreck snuck into your comment.)

 

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