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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 21, 2014 at 8:53am

Thanks, Randy, I was a little stunned myself! 

I love the phrase "geewillikers."  Little Jimmy from The Cinnamon Bear radio serial in the 1930's used that expression.  Any of you (if you'll pardon the expression) old-timers remember Jimmy & Judy searching for the silver star for the top of their christmas tree?  That was always a perennial favorite to listen to during December.  

Comment by Randall Smith on August 21, 2014 at 7:43am

Geewillikers, I take a day off from the computer (with grandson), and I miss all sorts of news--good and bad.

Carl, your kidney situation stunned me. Goodness, I hope you can return to some sense of normalcy in the coming weeks. 

Hang in there, Mindy. Try not to worry or think about any prognosis.

Ian, I'm envious!

Comment by Ian Mason on August 21, 2014 at 3:34am

I have returned! Been on a lovely visit to England. Had a smashing time with some of the family, eating, drinking lots of tea and relaxing. Also managed to squeeze in 2 art exhibitions, 1 Shakespeare play and 1 prom concert. It don't get much better.

Comment by booklover on August 20, 2014 at 8:03pm
That would be great, Carl!!!!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 7:28pm

That's good news, Mindy.  Sorry you have to have all this back-N-forth to Madison, but I guess it is worth it. 

BTW, I was thinking......next time you use your health as an excuse to get out of a family function, call me.  I will do the same and we can get together for a movie night.  lol

Comment by booklover on August 20, 2014 at 6:29pm
Well my upper- endoscopy went fine. They didn't find anything to be concerned about. They did take a few samples to check. They said the Nissen Fundoplication I had looked crappy. It was sloppy looking she said. Maybe the surgeon did a bad job, or whatever, but she suggested not having it done again. I will just have to put up with the bad reflux. Follow-up in 3 weeks. Then I will feel real relief if the biopsy is fine. The doctor today was not concerned though, so I do feel relief.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 10:35am

Well, despite my vow to embrace turning 50 years old last month, it has hit me like a ton of bricks.  lol    While recuperating, I have only been leaving the house to get food and supplies or to keep my numerous doctor's appointments.  Yesterday, I went to the eye doctor.  I'll be wearing glasses full-time now to correct vision problems I've been having.  No big deal, though.  I'm kind of looking forward to getting them in two weeks.  I'll be able to read books again!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 10:17am

Thanks, everyone, for all your words of support.  It means a lot to me.  I know I can come here and find a receptive ear when needed. 

Joan, my panic attacks seem to be under control now that my kidneys are stabilized.  I'm definitely feeling calmer and more at ease.  Knowing what the problem is and having it taken care of is half the battle, physically and mentally. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 20, 2014 at 9:29am

Carl, this dreadful news must have hit you hard, even though your body was probably sending you messages for some time. I am so grateful the doctor caught it before a heart attack or some other dastardly event. You are a smart fellow and know how to research and ask questions and seek information so that you can take as complete control as possible. 

The trick now is to feel that you are not a victim, but a warrior taking on a challenge of a lifetime. Each day, each moment, you have things to do to help correct the malfunction of your kidneys. It is very easy to fall into a depression, I did, and get help with that immediately. Don't think it will go away with positive self-talk. Depression is far more insidious than that. 

I/we am/are with you, dear friend, able and willing to read whatever you feel like pumping into the computer. We are survivors. More importantly, we are the thrivers of the world. We flourish in the face of illness, disaster, misfortune. Life is more than our illness. 

It is a good idea to get help with panic attacks. It usually takes only short term care to get over them, but it does require a skilled practitioner. 

Comment by Plinius on August 20, 2014 at 3:20am

That's horrible news, Carl! I hope you feel better already now your treatment started!

I hope your check up brings good news, Mindy!

And thanks for the info, Joan! Your country has got a recipe for disaster, and I hate to think that our government wants to copy that recipe.

My pc is away for repair - I forgot to copy favorites and e-mail adresses, so I hope it will be back soon.

And I surely have the most nervous black cat in the world; last Sunday there was a big fire some  7 kilometres away, but the smell of it was in our house when we came home. Dido had been worrying and he couldn't pee once more. Luckily I had the medicins for it! 

 

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