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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Plinius on August 11, 2014 at 12:10am

Thanks for the wishes and the music, Carl, good music! Monday morning here, and we had our first weekend new style: one day for one of our two patients and one whole day for ourselves! I can't tell you how much we missed a day off this year - and how much we enjoyed doing nothing. I like your memories of the Netherlands - will put up some pictures of here.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 10, 2014 at 11:36pm

Mindy, strange coincidence....I just received an e-mail from Lori Golden who publishes The Pet Press.  Here's part of it:

I found a wonderful article you had written for The Pet Press in June 2000 (my 10th issue) all about working at The Cat Hotel and specifically mentioning Boom Boom.

It turns out my next cover story, Rachael MacFarlane, is the person who adopted Boom Boom, who is still alive and well (yet FLV positive) and enjoying a wonderful life at the age of 19 years!!
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I still remember Boom-Boom; he was a sweetheart, but  was with us for quite a while because he'd already been diagnosed, and people who already had cats were wary of adopting him.  Naturally.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 10, 2014 at 12:25pm

I hope everyone is having a good weekend.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 10, 2014 at 9:28am

k.h. kyput a portion that you will use in a custard cup or glass, put the glass in warm/hot water and test by putting a small drop on your wrist. The temperature should be warm, not hot, on your skin. It is best not to heat the whole bottle of liquid. 

Comment by Randall Smith on August 10, 2014 at 7:45am

The one and only time I was in Amsterdam was in 1967. But I remember well the Frank's house, the Rijksmuseum (esp. The Nightwatch), the brewery (where I got drunk on the free beer), the dirty canals, and much more. I'd love to return, but not bicycling Europe like I did back then.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 9, 2014 at 11:43pm

Chris, we were in Amsterdam for several days while the Gay Games were being held there.  We knew people from Chicago who were competing in bowling.  We stayed in a guest house in Zaandam with an elderly couple who were so wonderful.  They were like cool, hip grandparents.  Everyone there was so excited that Amsterdam was hosting the Gay Games in Holland.  Such a different atmosphere than the U.S.  

Yes, I got to see the Rijksmuseum as well as the Anne Frank House, which was extremely moving and reflective.  Everything was there as it is in her diary.  The big tree in the back yard, the church down the street whose bells she could hear ringing.  It felt rather surreal to walk down the main street around the corner after seeing old photos of Nazi soldiers parading down the same street in front of the same buildings currently standing.  Holland is a really wonderful country.  

Ian, I envy your concert and theater schedule.  I can't tell you how many times I've played Ralph Vaughn Williams music.  His music is standard repertoire for Concert and Symphonic bands.  I've played his music through high school, college and currently.  I wasn't familiar with his Pastoral Symphony so I looked it up on YouTube.  It has a vocal chorus, which is why I've never played it.  I've always been involved with instrumental-only groups.  Enjoy!

Comment by k.h. ky on August 9, 2014 at 11:04pm
Does anyone know how l can warm a bottle of ear wash before I use it on my dog? It's a rather large bottle and I'm afraid I'll over heat it in the microwave. I don't want to sit it in warm water because it will ruin the label.
Sweet E keeps getting an infection in the left ear. I've had her to the vet three times. I don't want to keep treating her with antibiotics.
I'm at my wits end.
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 9, 2014 at 5:32pm

Carl, love your photos and the scenes of the cat with a windmill as background, and you and your partner on the Eiffel Tower. 

Ian, happy journey! Sounds like a great itinerary. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 9, 2014 at 5:25pm

Patricia, those pc wallpapers are stunning. You are going great guns with your new computer! It is fun to see your posts. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 9, 2014 at 5:15pm

Mindy, Carl said it beautifully. I send my best wishes as well. 

 

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