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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on July 3, 2014 at 9:16am

Some months ago there was a discussion about probiotics and several of you named a brand. Can you remind me what it was? 

Comment by Plinius on July 2, 2014 at 12:30am

I like that song very much Ian, thanks for posting! It's good to hear a normal sound from those years, instead of the patriotic bs.

And there the dying coffee-grinder starts again, five minutes after I started the pc. I bought it some four years ago in the hope that it would solve my pc problems - it turned out to be a monday-morning-thing. Four years of idiotic failures, unsolvable strange stagnations, a thousand blue screens and other malfunctions. Repair people could never find what's wrong, but put in a lot of new parts, all without succes. So I'll check the post and turn the thing off - I can't stand the noise.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 1, 2014 at 9:56pm

Ian, glad you didn't resist posting Wonton Violence. 

Loren, very nice wind down from a busy day. 

Comment by Loren Miller on July 1, 2014 at 9:20pm

Something mellow for before bedtime: the amazing work of Ralph Towner:

Comment by k.h. ky on July 1, 2014 at 5:28pm
I like that Ian.
Comment by Ian Mason on July 1, 2014 at 4:10pm

I can't resist posting this one.

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 1, 2014 at 1:57pm

This used to be one of my favorite songs.  I now don't like the one reference to prayer, but other than that, it still gets to me.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 1, 2014 at 1:42pm

Ian, an appropriate song to bring to mind. In 1915, mothers and fathers lamented sending sons to war, just as they do today. 

"Verse 1

Ten million soldiers to the war have gone, Who may never return again. Ten million mother's hearts must break For the ones who died in vain. Head bowed down in sorrow In her lonely years, I heard a mother murmur thru' her tears:

"Verse 2

I didn't raise my boy to be a soldier, I brought him up to be my pride and joy. Who dares to place a musket on his shoulder, To shoot some other mother's darling boy? Let nations arbitrate their future troubles, It's time to lay the sword and gun away. There'd be no war today, If mothers all would say, "I didn't raise my boy to be a soldier."

"Verse 3

What victory can cheer a mother's heart, When she looks at her blighted home? What victory can bring her back All she cared to call her own? Let each mother answer In the years to be, Remember that my boy belongs to me!"

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Comment by Plinius on July 1, 2014 at 1:25pm

I'm trying to listen to that tomorrow, Ian - today my pc rattles like a coffeegrinder that is almost dying. Perhaps it will be silent for some time tomorrow.

Comment by Plinius on July 1, 2014 at 1:18pm

And I'm really glad that I don't have to be owner, boss or whatever. I hate to follow orders and I hate to give orders; possibly that's the reason I'm a cat person.

 

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