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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Idaho Spud on May 7, 2014 at 7:40am

Unrequested help.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 7, 2014 at 5:11am

A very pretty daughter you have, Patricia.

That's the Judean desert, Joan. There's a lot of obvious erosion caused by rain. In Herod's time the palace was self-sufficient with water because it had huge cisterns to store rainwater. There was even s swimming pool. The Dead Sea is not far away but that's not drinkable :-D

Thoughts and feelings. I was impressed, as I often am, by the human ingenuity and skill involved but bore in mind that it was all created on the whim of a ruler. This is probably true of all ancient monuments. I have to take my hat off to the Jews of the time: the Briton's rebellion of 61 CE lasted a couple of months but the Jewish rebellion held out against several Roman legions for 4 years, ending atMasada. As a result all modern Israeli soldiers are "sworn in" there.

I think the landscape is fascinating and would love to wander about. I felt the same urge in Greenland and in Austria, always wanting to see what's over the next hill. In Austria it was possible to satisfy my urges to some extent without running any great risk to life and limb which was a real pleasure.

Comment by Plinius on May 7, 2014 at 4:49am

Help with suicide is still forbidden but there's discussion about it....

Comment by sk8eycat on May 7, 2014 at 1:02am

Actually, I think she had "help."

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 7, 2014 at 12:34am

Felaine, clever lyrics. She died eating her lute! 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 7, 2014 at 12:28am

Just for fun...listen to the lyrics very carefully:

IT WAS A DARK AND STORMY NIGHT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2UBJT3S8l0

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 6, 2014 at 11:28pm

Ian, what a godforsaken place! Even along the water's edge I see very little vegetation. Just sedimentary rock, that looks to me like the remnants of an ancient sea bed. There may be some metamorphic rocks in the scene, but everything looks sedimentary. Why do people die for such a place. The only commerce I see is tourist busses and there are lots of them. There looks to be an oasis where the busses park and I wonder how far down they have to drill to get water? 

What an interesting place to visit, Ian! What kind of feeling or thoughts did you have as you looked at Masada and recalled the history? 

Comment by Ian Mason on May 6, 2014 at 10:52pm

Felaine, that's something that's on thewish list. The few times that there has been a possibilty of Aurora here in Denmark the weather has been cloudy.

I have tinnitus but the whistling/whining kind. Too many years of working with newspaper presses plus lots of punk rock concerts when I was younger. Have you found a way of coping with yours?

Comment by sk8eycat on May 6, 2014 at 7:56pm

Patricia,  the description sounds kinda like tinnitus..except for the crackling....  I've been living with that for years.

But I still want to stand outdoors and experience the whole thing.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 6, 2014 at 7:18pm

 

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