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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Comment by Plinius on April 28, 2014 at 1:14am

But you did very well, Mindy! It looks like your ex-friend tried to punish you for her own problems, and then there is no other way than insisting your behaviour is correct and changing your number. It's almost pleasant to cut loose someone who wants to control your life. Enjoy the extra space!

Comment by k.h. ky on April 28, 2014 at 12:15am
Booklover, sometimes you have to cut them loose. I cut ties with a friend of 30+ years because she started calling at three in the morning drunk. It went on for several years after I'd told her nicely to not call me when she was drinking. And never call at 3am. She didn't stop so I broke it off.
Some friendships aren't worth the aggravation.
Comment by booklover on April 27, 2014 at 10:34pm
Good find Loren!
I had quite a doozy of a morning. The old friend I made up with and I were texting, and she just lost it! She was screaming at me in all caps about how selfish I was to have ended our friendship, etc. I very rationally explained my reason again, and she refused to hear me or acknowledge my feelings. It is Always about her only. Very narcissistic. I said she would never "get it," and everything is not about
her, and other people have troubles too. I told her friendship is a two- way street. It ended with her telling me she was in a rage, and how dare I suggest therapy ( which I didn't), and then she told me to go f--- myself. I replied that I didn't tell her to get therapy, her rage was scary, and I hoped she could find peace. That probably made her madder. Then I changed my phone #.
I am relieved she is gone for good, but she is crazy and works in an elementary school. Her youngest son is 10. She is divorced. I hope her kids are never on the receiving end of that kind of anger.
It even felt like a renewal to change my phone number! Now I can give it out only to people that I want to have it.
I feel peaceful, just a tad worried that she would try and do something to hurt me in some way. She JUST got her job back with our school district in January. The district had banned her. So that says a lot. She only got back in with a lawyer.
Anyway, tomorrow I resolve to not think of her again. I hate drama and it's very hard for me to feel right after an encounter like that.
Once again, thanks for listening! <3
Comment by sk8eycat on April 27, 2014 at 6:46pm

I should have added that most atheists I know became atheists because we were searching for the truth, and read the entire buybull from cover to cover. And found nothing believable.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 27, 2014 at 6:44pm

I would add that if religion were true, its adherent would not have to bludgeon the public (by passing restrictive laws, for one thing) to convert, either.

Comment by Loren Miller on April 27, 2014 at 3:07pm

Was doing some link-jumping off of something I saw on A|N's Amateur Radio group when I found THIS:

Seems as though the inventor of Cthulhu had it goin' on in the brainbox!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 27, 2014 at 11:26am

Good morning, everyone.  Hope your day is going well.  After several days of some of the most beautiful weather, it's been rather cool here and now a bit of rain is in the area.  Typical Spring.  Maybe we'll have a "normal" Spring after all.    

Loren, good stuff.  But then again, that style of music is my #1 love.  It's a co-inky-dink, but I was just listening to Tommy Dorsey's "I'm Getting Sentimental Over You" just yesterday, which I love. 

Comment by booklover on April 27, 2014 at 8:00am

I'm like you Chris, few friends left due to the same reasons, and also because the older I get, the less I care about socializing.

Have a good day everyone.

Comment by Loren Miller on April 27, 2014 at 7:53am

G'morning, gang.

Listened to the following this morning ... man, it just starts my whole day.  I'd be curious to know what it does for yours.



Enjoy!

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2014 at 1:37am

You sure made your ex-friends show what they're really made of, Mindy! Better to know the worst - you don't need that sort of trouble. And I'm glad your daughter is doing so well!

I have very few friends left, probably because I lead a very quiet life due to health- and stressproblems. And we're still working on for our two patients. Yesterday a big helping of migraine, but today we'll go on packing and cleaning in brother-in-law's house and trying to socialize his cat. The poor animal must be lonely, with only daily visits, but she begins to open up to us.

Ruth and Sk8eycat, this side is not only troll free, but nobody has been rude or condescending too. Very special!

 

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