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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 10:23am

Ian, thanks for your very kind comment. I know everyone is getting sick of reading my story, but every once in a while a new way of telling it appears, and so I give it another exposure. 

This time I wanted to reveal how supposedly negative feeling and situations can be turned into victories. For example, when I have a feeling that hurts, i.e. fear, anger, grief, I get out of it by thinking of ways to turn the energy into something whereby I come out a winner. An example, my former husband had many qualities, one of them being able to support us very well with boats, cars, ski trips, elegant holidays to Acapulco, and put a lovely roof over our heads and fill our bellies and take care of health and education costs. In other words, We had financial security. We didn't have safety and stability. 

Don knew how important financial security was for me so he refused to pay child support, thinking I would "come to my senses" and "stop trying to wear the pants of the family." Oh yes, he had control issues. 

So with no income, no education, no job prospects other than minimum wage jobs, I supported us and we grew happier and healthier, in spite of not having enough money. Our garden was beautiful, the kids and I were cleaning up the condemned house and it was becoming a beautiful home. 

I won in the long run. He still had his boats and several cars and trucks to haul around his motorcycles and took fancy vacations. 

Now tell me, which of us had a "successful" life?

Comment by Randall Smith on April 19, 2014 at 7:32am

NOW I realize what sk8eycat stands for! Thanks for the hint. And you all can call me Randy. Only my father calls me by my given name. Have a great weekend (despite it being Easter).

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2014 at 1:11am

I thought THIS was a "spiral."

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2014 at 12:42am

Have a great day, Mindy!

Comment by Ian Mason on April 18, 2014 at 10:21pm

Have a great day, Mindy. Enjoy your heathen feasting.

That's one heck of a life, Joan. You've stood up to and accomplished more than most people. I take my hat off to you.

r.e. number plates: "all is vanity and vexation of spirit". Ecclesiastes.

Loren, I don't know how doctors manage that contradiction but my last girlfriend's mother was a retired M.D. who'd worked in research AND took a theology M.A. to while away the time as a pensioner. Mind you, she also cheated at board games :-D

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2014 at 10:01pm

Oh! Carl! your mother and father must have been so proud of you all. You make quite a lovely looking family, all dressed up in fine attire, and a huge frown on a young lad, wishing he were someplace else. Where would that someplace else be? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2014 at 9:57pm

Mindy, hope your thumb heals quickly. I have an imagined picture of you with a huge white gauze bandage on it trying to type out your wonderful greetings to others. My imagination run wild!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2014 at 9:49pm

I looked at several Sneak Peaks of Gray's Anatomy, and they cover just about every touchy topic. I don't dare watch because I become addicted to the stories and get depressed. It was hard to break a TV serial habit as giving up ice cream. 

I started to look for places I could get the serial on computer, and pulled back knowing how it will turn out. I'll just watch Cosmos over and over and over. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2014 at 9:34pm

Loren! Yum Yum! what a spread. The place looks spotless and you can see the food being made. 

I wonder when piada italian street food will come to Spokane? So many places came and went. We must not be big enough to support such a place. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2014 at 9:31pm

Carl, I forgot to acknowledge the difficulty you experience as a traveling man. I suppose you have your favorite spots in cities with which you are familiar. Do you have a favorite city, or eatery, from all your options. 

We have about four restaurants that we favor here in town. 

 

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