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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Ian Mason on April 7, 2014 at 12:04pm

Agreed, Carl. We can hope that religious intitutions become more and more peripheral to real life.

There was a great fuss in Denmark recently when a Muslim examiner wouldn't shake hands with women examinees. What most Danes don't realise is that about one third of male priests in the Danish "Folkekirke" don't agree with the ordination of women and won't shake hands with their female colleagues. Weird, the lot of them.

Comment by Arp on April 7, 2014 at 11:42am

"Let the church keep marginalizing their women.  Hopefully this will give women the incentive to just give up on the whole institution all together. "

These are my thoughts too. In fact, I sometimes wonder why on earth are theist women theists? Can't they see the discrimination against them? Its a different thing for oppressed women (such as Muslim women in the Middle East), who have no other option but to be believers.

I'm talking about women who voluntarily follow certain religions. All major religions (Islam, Christianity, Hinduism) are discriminatory against women.

Comment by Plinius on April 7, 2014 at 11:25am

One of the small protestant churches here believes that women should shut up, that women are unfit to be leaders and they want to take away the right to vote from us. I'd think like Carl, it's an incentive to leave the church - but there is a group of women who stay in that church and try to get human rights. Very strange!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:52am

Arp, I tend to agree with your point of view.  Let the church keep marginalizing their women.  Hopefully this will give women the incentive to just give up on the whole institution all together.  Although I know that can be difficult road to follow, it's time for them to break the cycle of ignorance and submission. 

At some point, the mormon church will start to become much like what is happening in the catholic church;  the internal structure weakens and it has less control over its members, resulting in a loss of adherents.   

My favorite "schadenfreude" moments would be to watch these types of organizations collapse onto themselves from within.   

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:36am

Loren, I'm jealous of you!  What more can I say?  I hope you have a great time!

Comment by Arp on April 7, 2014 at 10:24am

Joan, it is not a new thing that religions are sexist.

However, I don't really care much about women not given the opportunity to be priest at the age of 12 years since I don't perceive priesthood as something good. I think of priesthood as stupidity.

But, please don't think of me as sexist or something. I'm for equality on all grounds whether it is sex, colour or anything. I want equality. I want justice.

So, in my opinion nobody (boy or girl) should be allowed to be priest at any age. We don't need priests. Religions need to be eradicated as soon as possible.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:19am

Ian, welcome back.  I think it's wonderful that you have these opportunities to enrich your life by traveling.  I'm also looking forward to your photos.   

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:17am

Teach and mold them while they're young.  That's why 12 year old boy are prepared for the priesthood and 12 year old girls are prepared to give birth and be slaves in the kitchen.  

Comment by Loren Miller on April 7, 2014 at 10:15am

Well, gang, today's the day.  Around 3:30 this afternoon, I'll set out for the Wexner Center at The Ohio State University, there to enjoy a showing of The Unbelievers and hear from the show's two stars, Lawrence Krauss and Richard Dawkins.

More than likely, I'll be reporting back here about what all went down later this week.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2014 at 10:06am

Is it not interesting that a 12 year old boy is prepared for the priesthood and 12 year old girls have no such opportunity. 

When god was a woman

This is an old book (1978) and as valid today as when I read it all those years ago. 

My project with Marija Gimbutas and Riane Eisler in Turkey, Greece and Crete and in Ireland and Belgium provides ample evidence of the reality of a time when god was a woman. 

 

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