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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 6, 2014 at 11:48am

Spud, the way I see it, people don't come to atheism through some kind of epiphany.  It's via an intellectually honest and well-reasoned process.  Either that Mormon kid wasn't an atheist like he said he was, or he is an atheist but is being pressured by family to conform.

The third option is that he is an atheist but is having second thoughts about getting married and moving to Arizona with this girl.  Claiming now that he's religious may be his cowardly way of slithering out of the situation.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 6, 2014 at 11:20am

Wow Mindy.  First atheist to go back to religion that I know of.  

It could never happen to me.  Mormonism has hundreds of things, any one of which proves it false.  Lots of people obviously have a different kind of brain than I have.

Comment by booklover on April 6, 2014 at 9:10am

That's a good way to work Chris!  It will eventually get done.  What a huge project for you!

Yes, it's good my daughter's friend's boyfriend had his "epiphany" before she moved away with him and their lives got tangled together.  Her mother, who is from the Philippines, has two grown children, with two different men.  She never married.  She has supported, and does still support, a LARGE extended family, as a nurse and business owner.  She told her daughter you don't NEED a man to have a successful, happy life.  Maybe she'll find someone, maybe not, but it's not a requirement. She'll meet someone eventually that appreciates her. :)

Gotta go, hubby made cinnamon rolls... Yum!

Comment by Plinius on April 6, 2014 at 1:43am

What a boyfriend - to to turn religious and flee! Good riddance!

We're still working in brother-in-law's house, sorting the usable things from rubbish and packing. It takes a long time, but we have our limitations and cannot work more than three or four hours in one day - and of course we have some other things to do on weekdays. b-i-l is still in revalidation but will move to a care home sometime in summer.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 5, 2014 at 11:12pm

Wow, that's terrible about your daughters friend, but you are so right.  Better to find out now than later.  She's still young.  There's lots more bacteria in the pond.

Comment by booklover on April 5, 2014 at 7:53pm

You're right Patricia!  In the daytime my bed is Dale and Dora's, but at night, it's only Lula's. lol

Comment by booklover on April 5, 2014 at 7:52pm

Ha Carl.

Yes she is Steph!  She just went to visit her best friend from college whose boyfriend of over 5 years just broke up with her.  They had plans to move to Arizona and get married.  He's been an Atheist as long as she's known him.  He just decided he's a Mormon again like his family.  He had an "epiphany," and decided to move to California with his brother.  Better she finds out now I guess!

Comment by Steph S. on April 5, 2014 at 4:59pm

Thanks for the link Flying Atheist - love cats.

Your daughter sounds very unique Booklover - very independent thinking.

How is everyone?

Comment by Patricia on April 5, 2014 at 2:42pm

Yes, kitties & their routines.....I swear they wear ''wrist'' watches when it's treat/feeding time! Then of course there is play time & many nap times, but they each have their places & change places depending on the time as well. The war still goes on about who gets my husband's chair, & when.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 5, 2014 at 2:29pm

Yes, cats are grand, aren't they. 

 

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