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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 13, 2013 at 2:00pm

My son, Craig and his family sent a beautiful and delicious arrangement of pineapple, strawberries and grapes and we ate it for dessert yesterday. It was so nice to have each of my three children  represented by that delightful presentation and Laura, Larry, Laurie, Cary and I picked it apart with gusto after dinner on Mother's Day. 

We had a beautiful couple of hours in the garden, and then came inside for Larry, Cary, and Laurie to fix dinner while we moms sat and watched. Craig, Mindy, Luke and Austin,you were definitely present in spirit. 

Life is such a gift, full of wonder, pleasures come from so many things, and especially having loving family and friends, close by and far away. All the special memories of Mother's Day past fill me with incredible joy, adding to my memory bank. I feel great; low energy, and each family member fills in the gaps that I once did. It is odd sitting and watching Cary do the chores in the garden that I once did, for 38 years. A lovely sight. I experience great comfort knowing each family member grows in integrity and compassion for others, that the Earth is in such capable hands as my descendants contribute. I woke up this morning at 10:00 and feel refreshed and ready.  

Laura, Michelle and Laurie go with me for appointments with my oncology surgeon and medical oncologist today. My project is getting rid of all those aggressive cancer cells. 

I stopped drinking my morning freshly squeezed lemon juice and pay attention to acidity in my diet. Cary shops for groceries with the list  Craig and Mindy provided me. This is definitely a team effort. Please keep any information you find coming to me. I read and listen to it all, and then have options from which to choose. I have heard so many conflicting things, and in the end, I am the one to decide. I especially like my physicians because they tell the research numbers on each protocol, including the homeopathic options, so I make choices in a way that I feel comfortable. 

I have been thinking about the women I met and interviewed in 32 nations of the Earth, and deeply wish they, too, could have the comfort of family and a society that supports them and keeps them safe from harm. I know, it is not reality, but it could be. As women become free, living in a just world, so do men. Keep that thought alive; it can only happen if we imagine it, and then do the thinking and acting that brings it to reality. 

Symphony of Science - 'Our Place in the Cosmos' (ft. Sagan, Dawkins, Kaku, Jastrow)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vioZf4TjoUI

 Carl Sagan's Cosmos, Richard Dawkins' Genius of Charles Darwin series, Dawkins' TED Talk, Stephen Hawking's Universe series, Michio Kaku's interview on Physics and aliens, plus added visuals from Baraka, Koyaanisqatsi, History Channel's Universe series, and IMAX Cosmic Voyage. The themes present in this song are intended to explore our understanding of our origins within the universe, and to challenge the commonplace notion that humans have a superior or privileged position, both on our home planet and in the universe itself. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 13, 2013 at 1:40am

Wow, Tony.  That's a cool video!  Thanks for posting.  I enjoyed it as well.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 13, 2013 at 1:13am

Thanks, Tony. That's a really good version of the song.

Napoleon, it's true. Your Duchampesque video doesn't move.

Comment by Plinius on May 13, 2013 at 1:02am

Thanks for posting, Tony, I enjoyed it very much!

Comment by Tony Carroll on May 13, 2013 at 12:26am

     Commander Chris Hadfield of the ISS remade David Bowie's 'Space Oddity' from the ISS. I really enjoyed this, hope you all do too.

 

Comment by Steph S. on May 12, 2013 at 9:35am

Happy Mother's Day to all the mom's out there.

Comment by tom sarbeck on May 12, 2013 at 5:23am

In the final math course I took before the University of Florida gave me a final piece of paper, the professor one day opined that "even mathematics is founded on faith."

I enjoyed his sense of humor. He announced one day that even flies have been known to do derivations. He was referring the tiny dots we were seeing over terms in some equations. He'd chosen a text that in footnotes remarked that "For people who must live life the hard way, ...." I understood his words about faith as referring to my faith in my ability to solve math problems. Though I sometimes threw pencils at the door, my faith helped me keep at some problems long enough to find their solutions. I don't recall inventing any solutions.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 12, 2013 at 4:11am
Comment by Ian Mason on May 12, 2013 at 3:49am

Love all the cats and dogs and boxes.

Carl, I really like that sound generator. 

Joan: she's not a member of a fixed religion, just a vague Intelligent Design type. For her, billions of years of evolution is THE proof of God's existence. Peace be with her, as she doesn't preach an orthodoxy. I just found her reasoning a bit of a shock. Another collegue, however, is soon to visit Stonehenge to take part in some mystical "energy circle". That pisses me off because these "new pagans" are allowed IN the circle while those of us who are interested in our history have to view from behind a barrier several yards away. For me ancient momuments are an irreplaceable treasure and I would never remove a gram of dust from one but I have to stay away. Because I can't plead "religion" I'm not trustworthy :-(

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 11, 2013 at 8:24pm
Ian, and furthermore, her god did all this 6,000 years ago! Well let's look at some data:

Dinosaurs first appeared during the Triassic period, (about 230 million years ago) and were the dominant land vertebrates for 135 million years, ending during the Cetaceous (65 million years ago).

Humans first began to evolve nearly 200,000 years ago.

Important Early Modern Homo sapiens Sites
http://anthro.palomar.edu/homo2/mod_homo_4.htm

“ it is certain that we will continue to evolve until we reach the point of extinction.“
 

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