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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Fall is already here--do you celebrate the holiday season?

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Brent Feeney yesterday. 26 Replies

I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

Local Color in the Neighborhood

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 27 Replies

It's getting on toward peak color season here on the North Coast.  I'm lucky enough to have some truly beautiful examples of it literally right outside my door and a short walk around.  So I thought I'd break out the Olympus and record some…Continue

Tags: trees, local color, autumn, fall

I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Oct 3. 10 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

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Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

Tags: stealth key copying, stealth key duplication, key copying, key copying from photos, stealth

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

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Comment by Steph S. on May 3, 2013 at 5:43am

Comment by Steph S. on May 3, 2013 at 5:42am

I am so glad you liked the GIF Melinda. I thought it was so cute.

Life is short and you should fill it with people who bring good things to it.

I agree Flying Atheist - that is a good decision.

I also hate those holiday prayers - yuck.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2013 at 4:13am

Tony, that was fun :-D

Melinda, time well spent indeed. Always good to be here.

I don't get bothered by religious types in my daily life, especially after I stopped going to AA meetings. I did have a little discussion with a colleague recently who was a non-specific theist. She thought that the fact that scientists discovered things rather than inventing them was proof of a creator/designer. I was just a touch speechless and didn't pursue the point.

A fine day to you all.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 3, 2013 at 12:07am

Melinda, I second that!

... just smart for getting the most out of the short time we all have on this wonderous planet! I definitely feel that time spent here on Hang with Friends is time well spent!!!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 2, 2013 at 11:29pm
Tony, the pipes are fun and lively.
Comment by Tom Sarbeck on May 2, 2013 at 11:24pm

Ugh, prayers. I'm an AmVets life member and was once the post treasurer. There were no opening or closing prayers then. When they started I stopped going to meetings. A few days ago I remarked to a post officer that members forget to go to church on Sunday and do their praying at post meetings. He chuckled.

About 15 years ago the newly-elected president of a residents council where I live appointed me to a post and I badgered him about the opening invocation. I told him I was a pagan and insisted on an occasional pagan invocation. The Xian members did the job for me. For three months a few people complained about the invocation at the previous month's meeting. Their complaints irritated the president so much that he asked the board to replace the invocation with a moment of silence. The board agreed and the invocation went away, never to return.

Comment by Tony Carroll on May 2, 2013 at 11:10pm

Don't know if anybody likes the pipes, but I do. Found this one particularly entertaining, and wanted to share with you all.

Comment by booklover on May 2, 2013 at 9:38pm
That is wonderful Carl, and so wise! I think you're a really neat person, and I feel so good hearing stories from people I respect that do the same thing I am doing. I don't feel like a failure at friendships anymore, just smart for getting the most out of the short time we all have on this wonderous planet! I definitely feel that time spent here on Hang with Friends is time well spent!!!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 2, 2013 at 9:24pm

Ugh!!  I hate sitting through a prayer in a restaurant.  Been there, done that several times.  It's embarrassing. 

Melinda/Felaine, about 10 or 11 years ago I made the conscious decision to cut myself off from and rid my life of people who had nothing positive to bring into my life or that I didn't enjoy being around.  I was tired of not getting anything good in return for the effort I put out.  Perhaps to some people that sounds selfish, but my life has been so much better and less stressful as a result.  I just hate drama, unless it's in a movie.  Although I'm a nice, friendly and cordial guy (if I may say so), I'm careful and choosy about who I bring into my inner circle.  You two have done the right thing. 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 2, 2013 at 7:11pm

That one phrase is so true:

"...Christians are some of the most hateful people I know..."

I must admit that one couple I've been close to since jr. high (I was a bridesmaid at the wedding in 1958) who are very sincere about being a Baptist minister and Mrs. Rev., but they are still a lot of fun, and they don't get in my face about my atheism. They like me for myself.  That's all I ask from anybody.

Well, the Rev. does one thing that makes me feel awkward, when we have an informal reunion at the hamburger place where we used to hang out, he insists (doesn't ask) on ad libbing a sermon-length prayer while the fries get cold.  I refuse to bow my head, but I've never started eating while he's putting on his little show,  Maybe next time....

Oh, and they are very proud of being friends with Beverly and Tim LaHaye (of "Left Behind" fame)....and even though the Rev is retired, he still travels and substitutes at churches that need a temp.  And they never have to worry about where their next burgers and fries (and malts) will come from....

 

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