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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat 18 minutes ago. 38 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat 47 minutes ago. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist on Thursday. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

Granddaughters

Started by Donald R Barbera. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Nov 15. 6 Replies

I've got three grandsons and I love them to death, but my youngest son and his wife had a baby girl in January and I haven't  right since. Granddaughter has me wrapped up like my grandsons never did. What is it about granddaughters? Her name is…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 1, 2013 at 12:06am

Joan, I really like that quote from David Attenborough.  When it comes to our environment and the earth's resources, there's always one big pink elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about:  population control.  In addition to wisely using the limited resources we have and finding ways to make them more efficient, we should also be discussing how we can encourage more people to have less children.  Sadly, that topic never seems to be seriously mentioned as part of the equation. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2013 at 11:06pm

Symphony of Science - "Children of Africa" (The Story of Us)

Featuring Jacob Bronowski, Alice Roberts, Carolyn Porco, Jane Goodall, Robert Sapolsky, Neil deGrasse Tyson and David Attenborough.

"This most successful of all mammals has exploited the environment to produce food for an ever increasing population. Instead of controlling the environment for the benefit of the population perhaps it's time we controlled the population to allow the survival of the environment."

~ David Attenborough
Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 10:24pm

Megan...Go to EvolveFish for all kinds of satirical variations of the xian stick-on fish.

About religion & public schools, IMO Comparative Religions should be taught everywhere, and I don't mean just the big-name ones.  High schoolers, at least, should be made to scrutinize the similarities of all the sun-godmen who were born of virgins, had 12 disciples (the signs of the zodiac), died and were reborn (the winter solstice and the vernal equinox)....and so on. Christianity is just another form of plagiarism.  Except they got the "golden rule" bass-ackward.  The older religions all stated it as : Do NOT do unto others that which you would NOT want them to do to you.  Makes more sense that way.

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 30, 2013 at 9:14pm

Haha I love all the cat pics!

I think I'll just put up a "Beware of Atheist" sign on my door, or maybe just Skeptic.. Atheist might get my house egged. But that should stop any BS sharers :p

Debra,

"If students want to become religious, spiritual or non-religious when they are older than that is fine.  Manipulating a child into believing what you believe against their own wishes is wrong.  Teach a child how to think, not what to think."

I totally agree with that statement.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 8:41pm

Felaine, thanks for the links to the tracts.  I should order some and pass them out on my way to work to the leaches who stand at the train station passing out "The Watchtower" magazine and their tracts.   

Regarding the Orange County story, it makes my blood boil every time I hear stories about religious groups wanting to pass out bibles at schools.  These religious people are as disgusting and pervasive as a roach infestation.  At least the FFRF is countering the attack with our own literature. 

Still.....I can't believe that the school district censored some of our material.  How to fix the problem:  keep the schools as an environment for learning (not religious recruiting) and the whole problem is solved. 

Why do we have to keep fighting these battles and putting out these continuous fires?  It's like a christian version of Whack-A-Mole.  I just want to pull my hair out.     

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on April 30, 2013 at 8:00pm
Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:49pm

Carl, you can get packets of "non-tracts" to hand out to the doorbell-ringers from  https://ffrf.org/shop/nontracts  They are $4 per dozen, or a sample pack of one each for the same price, and you don't have to be a member.

One of  my faves is "Cookie-Cutter Christs," a collection of short descriptions of earlier god-myths that are almost identical to the stories in the gospels.

And this is an interesting news item that I just received:

https://ffrf.org/news/news-releases/item/17625-atheist-literature-t...

I hope they open up some minds and/or encourage kids who are closeted non-believers to hang onto their disbelief in the buybull belt.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:32pm

Grinning Cat, a long time ago, when I first went online, I got in touch with a sweet couple who owned a catnip plantation (Catnip Cafe) on the Fraser River, just outside of Vancouver, B.C.  In addition to selling baggies of catnip for cats, they carried a  line of catnip teas for humans, and catnip-laced chocolates.  Verrrrry tasty!  But, a couple of years after I "met" them, they sold the business, and moved into town to raise children. 

*sigh* I really wanted to take the train to Seattle, and then transfer to Vancouver, and meet them...one set of parents owned a cozy-looking B&B in the area, too.

Comment by booklover on April 30, 2013 at 5:55pm

Carl, I also address the young people and tell them they still have time to think for themselves.  I tell them they are being brainwashed.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2013 at 5:34pm

It didn't take me long to realize that one of my self-satisfying labels to the no religion sign would be taken by the religious as an excuse to ring the bell, because they obviously were not crazy, deluded or preaching BS.

 

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