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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 21 hours ago. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2013 at 6:23pm

Sunday morning, at my daughter's home with her husband and soon to be joined by two grandaughters and their mates, and five great-grandchildren, celebrate coming spring. Of course a big feast of baked ham, au gratin potatoes, cole slaw, and all the trimmings send out aromas as they bake and marinate. 

My granddaughter, her mate, and their blended family of five children hiking this morning sent back these photos. We will all be together this evening with a shared dinner. 

Snow on the ground in the forest that surrounds their home has almost melted. A white rabbit and deer peak in on us, just checking in. Even Dominic and Spaz, dogs, watch them, but accept wild  visitors. There is something special about this family.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2013 at 5:34pm
I appreciate your sharing, Patricia; the positive support that comes from staff feels so good, and then from family and friends is like frosting on a cake. I am prepared for the bad stuff, even with some good relaxation processes. I expect to complain when the time comes.
Comment by Grinning Cat on March 31, 2013 at 4:49pm

Melinda, it's great to see you and your daughter enjoying time together!

And thanks for that good advice on dealing with preachy Christian Facebook friends: "Unfriend them.... just because they don't see you on their friends list doesn't mean you're not there. Have faith."

Sk8eycat, that picture "This is not a chicken ... this is not a person ... this is not a difficult concept" is right on. A potential child is not yet a person. The unspoken "personhood" / "child" / "unborn baby" assumption behind anti-choice arguments needs to be consistently spoken and refuted.

Spud, observant Jews' Sabbath practices actually do follow somewhat logically from their (crazy!) axioms. The 39 categories of creative or controlling actions (rather than physical effort) that they avoid on the Sabbath are extrapolated from the categories of "work" used to build the tabernacle in the desert. Electricity is seen as a sort of "fire" that shouldn't be controlled directly, but timers and thermostats are OK, as is keeping food hot with a stove or oven that's already on. And as Melinda mentioned, traditional Jews are actually required to violate the Sabbath rules (and most others) when it means saving someone's life.

Many humanistic Jews, while rejecting "god said so" or "the rabbis said so", find value in the Sabbath as a time to "rest" from trying to dominate and control the world and other people, and appreciate who and what we have. It also asserts that time off isn't just for the rich, and that our dignity is based on more than our jobs and paychecks.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:47am

Not important, but I had another thought about the Shakespearian nom bird picture.  I wonder if it could be real, but rotated.  The branch could be slanting down to the right, and the bird is standing plumb.  Not likely, just a thought.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:41am

Steph, the cat chewing on the braid made me smile.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:38am

Melinda, that is crazy.  Driving is more work than walking?  Pushing a button is more work than climbing the stairs?

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:35am

Yes Ruth, I thought the nom bird would fall over also.  Almost certainly  photoshopped.  However, I wonder if it's possible that a real bird could get in that position because of their strong grip.  What do you think Steph?

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:05am

Funny Melinda. "....not a good decision."

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 31, 2013 at 7:02am

Felaine, I like "This is not....".

Comment by Ian Mason on March 31, 2013 at 4:14am

The secular hols are really good. I doubt employers will pay extra for working those days though or give people time off - yet.

Lots of fun cats, etc. Thanks all and good health to you.

 

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