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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Comment by Steph S. on February 26, 2013 at 4:36pm

Comment by Ian Mason on February 26, 2013 at 3:37pm

Nice one Melinda.

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 26, 2013 at 3:23pm

Good one Melinda.

Comment by booklover on February 26, 2013 at 2:33pm

I think I'd say I Would hate him if he were real.  Not might.

Comment by booklover on February 26, 2013 at 2:32pm

I hate waiting for the next book to come out when I'm into them too Ian! Love the garfield cartoon. :)

Comment by Ian Mason on February 26, 2013 at 2:24pm

Comment by Ian Mason on February 26, 2013 at 2:23pm

Sorry, but I haven't been paying attention the last couple of days. I've been absorbed in Hilary Mantel's "Bring up the Bodies", the follow-up to "Wolf Hall". Thomas Cromwell continues his ascent to the heights of power, this time by organising the downfall of Anne Boleyn and her family. In the first book it was possible to have some sympathy for him in his journey from son of a drunken, violent blacksmith to secretary to Cardinal Wolsey and subsequently a favourite of Henry VIII. In the new novel he's really turned into a nasty shit, ready to destroy anyone who crosses him and to take revenge on those responsible for Wolsey's fall from favour.

Will have to wait a year or two for the final volume of the three :(

Comment by booklover on February 26, 2013 at 1:57pm

Glad you guys liked the quote!  There are some good things to be had on Facebook. :) Carl, I remember my Mom used to play her record album from HAIR when I was a kid.  I loved to sing along. Love the NASA video Chris. That's cool you influenced your friends to not belief the supernatural crap sk8eycat! :) Just went out for lunch with a friend who is 'mostly' Atheist.  I think she hangs on to something, but really knows that this is it.  She's really cool to hang-out with though.  The snowstorm has hit us now.  Safe inside drinking my decaf now!~Melinda

Comment by sk8eycat on February 26, 2013 at 1:47pm

Melinda, I love the "higher power" comment.  I tried going to a 12-Step group (Adult Children of Alcoholics) for a couple of years, and knowing that I wasn't alone, and listening to other people's stories, did help me get over myself, but all the "god-talk" and higher power stuff (I never could say the first word of the "serenity prayer" out loud) finally got on my last nerve, so I quit.  Now I laugh about the whole experience.

Also, by the time I did quit, a couple of my closest friends in the group had decided they couldn't believe in supernatural powers, either.  I don't know if I can take credit for that, but I was rather outspoken about my lack of belief at times. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 26, 2013 at 12:43pm

Carl, your video brings back memories.  I never saw the show or movie, but those songs were on the radio when I was dating.  I liked The Age of Aquarius and especially Good Morning Starshine.

 

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