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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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A tribute to my father

Started by Brent Feeney. Last reply by Debra Stevenson 9 hours ago. 12 Replies 1 Like

So, I guess most of you here know that my dad died back in January of complications of Parkinson's disease. There have been times that have been rough since then, but I'd think it's all part of the process, so to speak.Today was Remembrance Sunday…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on January 21, 2013 at 4:18pm: I enjoy your wonderful cat stories Ruth and Melinda.

Cat means Snow is great Joan - thank you.

That's funny sk8eycat - very funny lolcat.

Ian I just love Garfield. Great cartoon.

Comment by Steph S. on January 21, 2013 at 4:16pm: Did anyone have trouble getting onto the site this morning?

I kept getting an error "500 Error" . So glad the site is back. I missed being here.

Anyone watching the Inauguration?

Comment by Ian Mason on January 21, 2013 at 2:26pm

Comment by sk8eycat on January 21, 2013 at 2:18pm: The Door Into Summer is one of my all-time favorite Heinlein books (even though the SF technology is terribly dated now). But Pete (the cat in the story) would never have played in the snow the way the kitteh in that adorabubble video did.

Here's a Cheezburger classic LOLcat:

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 21, 2013 at 1:28pm: the Cat Meets Snow video is fun Joan. I like what one person said:

kelanth462 2 hours ago

I used to live in a house with 6 doors to the outside on the ground floor. My cat hated the cold but would still go from door to door meowing to go out. Upon finding cold snowy weather outside 1 door he would go to the next and the next. Guess he was just looking for the door into summer.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 21, 2013 at 12:28pm: Natural things offer so many pleasures.

Cat meets snow

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 20, 2013 at 10:00am: I enjoy your cats & food stories Ruth and Melinda.

Comment by booklover on January 20, 2013 at 8:24am: Ruth, that's cute about your cats! Ours get a treat in the a.m., and they congregate in the kitchen meowing until I get the treats on the ground! When they are finished, THEN the dog gets to come out of her 'room' (kennel) and go outside.

I feel very lucky that I got to stay home with my kids from the time they were born until now really. I am going to look for something part-time, but it has to be the right job. We achieved this by being frugal, but we never went without. That has been my 'career.' :)~ Melinda

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 19, 2013 at 11:52pm: My two cats want bedtime treats, not stories. Then in the morning they're frantic for their quarter can of fancy feast "breakfast" (each), even though there's always dry kibble available. They get the same wet food treat every evening when we eat our dinner, and they're sooo eager. They came from a home where their food was always dry. It's a peaceful life in our house, where the big drama is cat food.

I've been so lucky in my life, with great parents and spouses. Not so much in jobs. Thanks for sharing your stories.

Comment by Lillie on January 19, 2013 at 10:43pm: Thanks, Booklover. There are a lot of disfunctional families in this world and I don't know but what religion doesn't contribute to this.