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Comment by booklover on January 15, 2013 at 7:49am

Felaine, I love the baby-talk story!  GREAT pictures Tony! Joan, as usual, you express your wonderful thoughts wonderfully! :) Steph, super-lazy lol cat is funny.  Both of my kids had good first days of college.  Today is super-packed with classes for both of them.  I miss my daughter, but she is sounding happy. Hugs to everyone~ Melinda

Comment by booklover on January 15, 2013 at 7:37am

Ian that's great that you exercise too.  I NEED to, but I don't.  You DO have friends right here.  I know what you mean though.  I have friends that I see occasionally, but I really think it's hard to have real friendships with non-Atheists.  I'm sure people do, it's just that that fact is always THERE.  I used to be REALLY sociable.  Now I prefer staying home most of the time. Take care.~ Melinda

Comment by Tony Carroll on January 15, 2013 at 3:33am

I think it worked. Hypothesis confirmed.

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Comment by Tony Carroll on January 15, 2013 at 3:28am

Joan, I don't think the music will follow when this thread gets long enough to go to another page. So I will post a couple of things to test my hypothesis.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 15, 2013 at 2:11am

sk8eycat, of course a girl should have free access to contraceptives and I saw the subcutaneous type, it makes a lot of sense. I had to train rats when I was in school and I learned so much I recommend all parents take rat training courses. Pretty much the same principles apply. Your driving analogy is a good one.

Yes, playing with babies is a lot different than dealing with a two year old, or seven, or 14, or even 21 year old. After that, being with them depends on whether it is fun or not. 

I love your story of dinner out with your parents and your response of "She talks BABY talk!" is perfect! Good for your parents. Gogo gaga with a baby is one thing, but with a four year old, you were one smart and courageous little cookie to be able to speak your truth.

You may never know why you feel as you do, but the more important thing is that you know what you feel. 

I am so sorry your father had a drinking problem; it is hard for me to understand how a parent could abandon a child to alcohol.I've worked with a lot of kids of alcoholic parents and they all felt abandoned and had abandonment issues. That is a form of abuse, and you may have not been hurt physically, something happens to the spirit of a developing child when alcohol takes away the attention and effection of a parent. 

Your insomnia and migraines concern me. Have you had a thorough physical recently? Do take care of yourself. There are so many wise nutrition-interested people here, there may be some remedies they could offer. 

There is one thing I know for sure, you have spirit and gumption and have a wonderful sense of humor. You are also pragmatic and wise, and I don't pretend to know what may help you, but I find some relaxation in broadening my thinking. You probably have tried these before. Here are just two ideas:
The Most Astounding Fact - Neil deGrasse Tyson

Voice of Reason Lawrence Krauss Reality is liberating

I like these because I can get out of my stressed life for a few minutes and see a far larger universe. 

You are a dear friend and may you be in full health. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 15, 2013 at 1:44am
Napoleon Bonaparte, I love you dearly, but your music drives me crazy. I can't turn it off. I have done everything I can to get it to stop. Can you turn it off, Please OH PLEASE! I shall be eternally grateful.
Comment by sk8eycat on January 15, 2013 at 1:29am

Joan, I have believed for decades that a) girls should have free access to contraceptives (perferably the subcutaneous type) as soon as they reach menarche, AND b) both prospective parents should be given rigorous psychological/psychiatiric tests, and tests on general knowledge before the contraceptives are removed.  We need to know something about how to drive a car before being issued a drivers license...so....?  (Same thing goes for gun ownership.)

I used to enjoy playing with my friends' kids when they were infants, but as soon as they started walking and talking, I was outta there.  I felt awkward with them.

I don't know why I'm like this; my parents treated me with the respect (and love) due an adult from the earliest time I can remeber. There was a time they took me out to dinner with them...I think I was almost 4...and the waitress talked to me the way the cheezburger cats "talk;" "Duzz oo know what oo wants to eet?" I turned to mother and said in a shocked manner (and a rather loud voice), "She talks BABY talk!"  I remember that very clearly....

Dad was choking on his martini, trying not to LOL.

Life was good till Dad's drinking got out of control.

Steph, I love Super Lazy...not only is she/he adorable, she/he is ME. I'm still catching up on the sleep I missed last week.  Ditto for all the chores I let slide when I went into the Insomniac Crazies. Had some interesting migraine light shows, too.  I'm just glad it's over.

 

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